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Top Ten Reasons NOT To Become Swingers
by Cindy English · 2 Comments
Okay, earlier I posted the Top 10 Reasons To Become A Swinger, so, it's only fair
to "return the serve" with the top 10 reasons NOT to become a swinger.
1. Because you believe in and wish to honor your vows and the traditions of marriage.
2. To avoid the risk of sexually transmitted diseases.
3. To spare your reputation should your recreational sex activities be discovered.
4. To avoid disappointment should you not be "selected" or things don't work out. It happens. See this post at All Experts!
5. Just to please your partner.
6.You uncertain of your own wishes or the strength of your emotional relationship with your partner.
7. To "strengthen" your marriage – it may backfire! You may come to develop an emotional attachment to your swinging partner which should always be reserved for your spouse.
8. You may not be emotionally ready to handle unexpected feelings of jealousy when watching your spouse enjoy sex with someone else.
9. To quiet the little voice in your head that says "this is just not right for me".
10. Because you treasure your relationship with your partner and are unwilling to share them with anyone else.
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I'm a married man and I think I might be into swinging business but I'm not sure.
However I still like to comment on the 10 reasons not to swing.
1. I don't believe in the old fashioned traditions of marriage, I do believe in love but marriaga is in my opinion just an institute to make the bond between lovers official by law.
2. you can prevent this by having save sex.
3. Well chances that my (possible) swinger lifestyle is revealed are really small unless it's someone at the swingersclub itself and then this person will have something to hide as well. (the clubs have strict rules and filming and photographing is stricly forbidden most of the time)
4 is absolutely true, however if you go out without any expectations just to have fun then the dissapointment may be bearable.
5. If the partner agrees then I don't see the problem.
6. this is not the case in our scenario.
7. This is also a plausible reason not to do it
8. Well this is indeed the biggest obstacle for both of us (thats why just trying with one other couple might be the best first step)
9. well to be honest, the little voice in my head keeps screaming: this is the lifestyle I want.
10. You got a point here, however people are not monogamous by nature, the monogamy propagated by most humans is purely artificial and based on cultural and religious reasons.(our genes tell a different story in most cases)
I think it's ok to share your loved one with someone who is willing to share his loved one with you.