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Signs Of An Affair

At Cheating Ways, we get a lot of letters from our (dis)loyal readers. Many want to know how to have a fling and get away with it. The cuckold boys want to know hot to get their wives to cheat. Strong wives want to know more about male chastity belts. We even hear from middle-class wives who are thinking about escorting so they can become their own Belle De Jour. (I've read her book –... [Read more]

Top Five Male Fantasies: How To Float His Boat

Last week we talked about how one of the best ways to keep your wife from straying is to understand and find ways to fulfill her fantasies. Well, it should come as no surprise to anyone that just like anything else related to romance and sexuality, this is a two-way street. Satisfying your man's inner fantasies is just as important to keeping him faithful as it is for you. The problem is that... [Read more]

Top Female Fantasies – Double Clicking Her Mouse

One of the most common questions we get from guys who read Cheating Ways is: How can I get my wife or girlfriend to be faithful? The one we get most often from the ladies is: How can I be unfaithful and get away with it? In other words, your paranoia that she may be giving other guys a tour of her garden may not be that far off base. But, have you ever wondered what makes her think about cheating?... [Read more]

The Famous Unfaithful

At Cheating Ways, we are always interested in tales of infidelity – whether from our readers or from the rich and famous. As this decade winds down, we thought it might be time to take a look back and see who were the most fun unfaithful vixens and scoundrels of the past 10 years! Let's have some fun with the unfaithful! #1. No – not a golfer, but don't worry we'll get... [Read more]

How Men Feel When Their Wives Goes Astray

If you search the Internet, read magazines or go to the movies you'll see dozens, if not hundreds, of stories about how a woman feels when her man has sex with another woman. Yet, you almost never hear similar stories from the male point of view. Men are supposed to be tough, so they often don't talk about how they feel when their partner opens herself up for another man. That's why... [Read more]

Ménage A Trois – Cheating Light

I've said it before, and I'll say it again – human beings are not hard wired for monogamy. Sure, we were probably able to manage it 200 years ago, when our life expectancies were lower and manual labor meant we were working all the time. After all, after 10 hours in the fields who has time to cheat? And if your life expectancy is in the 40s and you are constantly dealing with children,... [Read more]

Interview With An Asexual – "Why not just sleep with someone else?"

There are many, many reasons why men and women cheat. In the last few articles we've talked a lot about cheating from the female point of view. This prompted a couple of our male readers to ask about the guys. More specifically, they said that their wives aren't as interested in sex as they are – so in some ways, they feel like they have to cheat. “What am I supposed to do,” they ask,... [Read more]

Back Door: The Cheating Girl's Guide To Anal Sex

One of the many, many reasons to have an affair is that it allows you to experiment with new sexual techniques you've never tried before. As well all know, every man is different and we can always learn from sexperience. Plus, many of us want to seem demure and romantic to our husbands – after all, we may feel weird showing our dirty side to the father of our children. But a lover is disposable,... [Read more]

30 Reasons Not To Leave Your Husband

Over the past few weeks I've spent a lot of time here talking about why having an affair can be a fun, liberating and enormously erotic experience for any woman. It can recharge your batteries, make you feel feminine and remind you of just how desirable you are. Plus, it can be good clean fun! But, we live in a monogamy centered culture – which is why people often ask me: “If you really feel... [Read more]

Pay For Play – Going Down With The Economy

Infidelity doesn't always have to be about romance. Sometimes it can simply be about going out and getting good sex. Sometimes it's about making yourself feel beautiful, feminine and desired. And sometimes, it can just be about the money. As noted on Salon and Jezebel, many middle class women – even ones who are married or in long-term relationships – are becoming escorts. Part of this... [Read more]

Interview With An Adulteress

Today, I want to introduce you to Violet – or as she calls herself on her infidelity blog, The Harlot. Violet is just shy of 35 years old and has been unfaithful to her husband since even before they were married. While her husband sometimes tells her that he has fantasies about her being unfaithful, he's not a true cuckold – when he's not horny, he tells her he never wants her to... [Read more]

You Dirty Dog: How To Cheat Like A Man

Over the past few weeks, I've been giving lots of advice to women about cheating. I've taught you how to train your man, why it's good for a girl to cheat and how to cuckold your man to get the cock you crave. But, a couple readers have asked me: What about the guys? Don't they sometimes need to cheat as well? My advice for men is simple, really. I always tell men to be much, much... [Read more]

Being In Heat – Why We Girls Need To Cheat!

The other day, I was hanging out with one of my girlfriends and she told me she had something she had to get off her chest. She lives with her boyfriend and loves him, but there is this one guy at work that is hitting on her. The bottom line was, she felt guilty because while she wants to be a good girl, every so often she's tempted to tell her boyfriend she needs to work late just so she can... [Read more]

Cheat Like A Girl Scout – Be Prepared!

Many people think it's mostly the men who cheat on their wives and girlfriends. But, as women, we all have girlfriends who play around and many of us have plenty of extracurricular fun. To be fair, I've always assumed that both men and women cheat – it's just that the guys are much more likely to get caught. There are several reasons for this. For one, guys just aren't always... [Read more]

Starting A Wife-Led Marriage – The Orgasm Opportunity

Last week we talked about how setting up a wife-led marriage in a loving female authority lifestyle can be a wonderful alternative to cheating. Once put into place you will be able to get all the orgasms you want from your man, plus many other fringe benefits. He'll be attentive, help around the house and continually court you. It will be like those magically first few months of dating all over... [Read more]

Wife Led Marriage – Courtship Instead Of Cheating!

There are many reasons why women decide to be unfaithful to men. Some of us like the adventure of a new conquest. Others feel the need to be constantly desired by new boy toys. And still others are simply mad at our partners and want to punish them. But, for many women, we decide to cheat simply because our men have become lazy in bed. This is not unusual at all, and relates to how men are hardwired.... [Read more]

Is Your Man A Cuckold? Can You Play And Stray?

Last week we talked about the cuckold lifestyle – where your man not only allows you to step out on him, but actually gets off on it. Obviously this has wonderful advantages for a girl who is tired of routine “married sex” but doesn't want to put the security of her relationship at risk. The problem is, how do you find out if this lifestyle is something your husband or boyfriend would be... [Read more]

Cuckolding – Guilt-Free Adultery For Girls!

Have you ever daydreamed about having one or more friends with benefits to play with, plus the security of a husband or boyfriend waiting for you at home? Imagine being able to do so while knowing your partner will always be happily faithful to you! If that sounds crazy, think again. Thousands of happily married couples in America have exactly this kind of lifestyle. It's called “cuckolding,”... [Read more]