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Back Door: The Cheating Girl’s Guide To Anal Sex
11:52 by bcalendar · 7 Comments
One of the many, many reasons to have an affair is that it allows you to experiment with new sexual techniques you’ve never tried before. As well all know, every man is different and we can always learn from sexperience. Plus, many of us want to seem demure and romantic to our husbands – after all, we may feel weird showing our dirty side to the father of our children. But a lover is disposable, so it’s much easier for us to let our naughty side fly free with him!
One of the many sexual acts that a lot of girls are curious about – but don’t quite feel like mentioning to their husbands – is anal sex. As Carrie Bradshaw said, it’s “The new blow job!”
There are many advantages to going the back door route with a lover. It minimizes the chances of accidentally getting pregnant by him, and will leave your vagina still feeling and smelling fresh if your husband wants to be intimate after you’ve had an afternoon tryst with your lover.
Even more importantly, many women report having a much “deeper” orgasm during anal sex than they’ve ever had during vaginal penetration. Plus, men love it – and it can make you feel slutty in a GOOD way!
But, many of us are put off because we are worried that it will hurt, or we simply don’t know how to do it. This leads many of us to keep our “last cherry” intact, even if we are panting to be filled to the rim!
Cheating Ways to the rescue. Anal sex doesn’t have to hurt – and if done right, can make you reach the heights of ecstasy. Just remember to follow our basic rules before you make him your back door man.
• You can’t use enough lube. Use as much lube as you think you need, and then double it. Keep the lube by the bed in easy reach, because you might need to use more as things progress.
• He has to wear a condom. No ifs, ands or “butts” about it. Not only is it safer, but also the lube on the condom will help it go in even more easily.
• You need to let him open you up with his fingers before he enters you with his manhood. Have him start with just one well lubed finger and then add more when you get comfortable. You shouldn’t even think of letting him stick his cock into you until he’s gotten three fingers inside.
• Before your first anal experience, try to practice at home with a slim dildo. It will get you used to anal sensations and help you relax when the big event arrives.
• When he starts to enter you, push out with your inner muscles as though you were taking a poo. I know this sounds weird, but trust me; it will help open your rosebud up to your lover.
• Have him go down on you before you try anal play. If you’ve already had an orgasm, your body will be more naturally relaxed and it will be easier for you to take him in.
• Make him enter you slowly. After he gets the tip in, make him stop for a little while until you are used to the sensations. Then, have him push in a little more and repeat the process until his balls are resting on your cute little tush!
• Once he’s all the way in, have him reach underneath you and play with your clit. This will build up your sexual excitement and bring you closer to orgasm.
• The first time you do it, have him pull out after you have your orgasm. You may be overwhelmed by the sensations and it’s a good idea to take a break. You can always finish him off later orally, and save his anal sex orgasm for when you are more sexperienced.
• Most importantly, relax. If you tense up it will be harder to enjoy the experience. Just remember that many, if not most, women end up loving anal sex once they get used to it. So, just take a deep breath and enjoy the moment!
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This is good advice in general. In particular, I hadn’t heard the “pull out after she’s had the first orgasm” rule, but it makes sense.
Ha! Sexperienced!
Cheating is such a disgusting and baseless lifestyle. Does anyone have any honor anymore? If you want to have multiple partners, more power to you! Just be honest about it. Live and let live. But if you are going to repeatedly lie to someone and break your word, what good are you?
What the hell man? I mean, just, what the hell? This is the kind of stuff people use in insults to one another; “oh yeah?! Well I fucked your wife in the ass last night!” Doesn’t anybody here see anything wrong with this? I’m no prude, you can sleep with as many people as you want- if the person you’ve made a commitment to is okay with it and knows about it. But other than that, doesn’t lying to someone that is supposed to be able to trust you above all others bother you in the slightest?
Mr. Ford, have you heard that “Good affair may save a bad marriage”?
In addition the tips presented here are not necessarily for cheating. Many couples may benefit from them.
Well, I would say that I’m far from being a prude!! Hours of sex every time we see each other for 2 years straight!!! Dress-up. Sex in parking lots. Anything went/goes. Even tried anal sex with me once (my idea after I researched how to do it and informed him of the steps). He stopped in the beginning saying that “he loved me too much too hurt me”! What a freakin joke!!!
Found out someone broke into the house and stole only my clothes and sex toys. WTF??? Then, he tells me that his ex-fiancee did it and she is crazy. But, she calls me and tells me that she was seeing him, found my stuff and threw it all over the bed months ago and walked out. Told me about the stuff that she found………strap on dildo’s, lick em stick em stuff, etc. Other stuff not to mention here. Things that didn’t belong to me. My own sex list took 3 drawers. It was pretty extensive. Told me he was a faggot and liked it up his own ass too!! I thought …Maybe she’s a jilted lover and lying?? Really broke into house like he said?? Her stories didn’t add up. She also told me that he was seeing a married woman, her husband knew and she wasn’t going to stop. I asked him about it, work in the medical field and explained my feelings on diseases ONCE again. Offered to break the engagement and date/use condoms. He denied it/ refused. I told him that if he ever decided to see other ppl break up with me then?? It wasn’t fair. I was doing/putting out. He said it was great. My body great. I take care of myself. Have an open mind about sex. He loved it. We weren’t married yet. So, I pushed the wedding date back=he wanted to be married ASAP!!
I see the red car pull in the long driveway while I was there. It was married woman. Then she continuously calls him that night. I speak to her finally after all this time. She spills her guts. Tells me that they been together 8 years for affairs on all kinds of women; marriage, Fianceez (yes, plural) and will never stop. Her husband does know and gets on phone. Listens to all gory, very specific, graphic details of years of kinky sex while married to him. He tells me he knows-WTF??? Sick!!! Then she proceeds to “gross me out totally” by telling me that they only have anal sex together-never vaginal (cuz it’s his place not her husband’s. Husband has bigger cock and hurts her), dressing like a slut (her words-not mine), have their own dog collar/leather/chains/etc.. She also straps on dildos and fucks him in the ass and he loves it. WTF??????? He tells me don’t go near his ass!!!!
Who is this guy??? A cop faggot??? Wouldn’t the police dept be proud to see one of their finest officers with a strap on dildo in his ass in front of a woman being fucked in the ass dressed like a hooker?? Not that I would tell them. Just sayin….
I have had UTI’s for 13 months now. Continuous antibiotic therapy with prophylactic med for prevention. Bangin me and my MD’s head against wall trying to figure out why? Have it again while writing this. She tells me no condom/protection and neither did we ( i was engaged. Thought I was safe). My period is over 1 month late. What a mess!! She tells me how he tore my prized body apart. Used my flat iron, my personal things. Knows every part of my body. Explained my body to me and where my belongings are. I feel like I’m sleeping with the devil!!!! I don’t understand y? I’m prettier than her, younger, smarter, better personality, saner, and sexier. WTF???
AM I the prized possession??? The good slut??? What’s the deal? All I can think of is those UTI’s and shit on his dick that I’m sucking. Supposedly best blow jobs too??? Guess not?? Ruined these years of my life!!! And wasted a ton of money=small portion. My self esteem went from great to total shit. I told him that He was my hott guy every day. Gave him constant compliments. Don’t know what else I could have done? MD don’t even know this but due to these 9 bladder infections in 1 year, I was advised to be tested for Chlamydia. Great!!! I can’t wait. And I was stupid enough to be faithful. Passed up way, way too many offers from other great guys who would love a girl like me and keep her. I’m just crushed. But, I will move on and he gets his married trash back to cheat with then complains about women leaving him constantly. DUH??? Anal sex cheating is it worth it?