Holy gilded tallywhackers Batman! It's a penis prison!

Why no Robin, it's not a penis prison, it's an ingenious little device called the new CB-6000 Male Chastity Device. Cleverly designed to bring men around the world to their knees no doubt!

Hmm…why, I'll bet that Catwoman is behind this treachery perpetrated against manhood.

Come Robin…to the Batmobile. There's not a moment to waste! We must find Catwoman and free tallywhackers everywhere before it's too late!

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WomanSavers.com is known as "World's Largest (and oldest) Database Rating Good & Bad Men" specifically targeting abusive and cheating men.

The site receives over 1.5 million hits per month and is in the top 5% most popular women's websites in the world.

That is pretty darned impressive so I had to check it out!

Who knows? Maybe someone I've met is on there…

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A short while back I posted an article referencing the pending lawsuit against a web site called "Don't Date Him Girl!".

Many consider the outcome of the lawsuit filed by Pittsburgh lawyer, Todd Hollis against Don't Date Him Girl! owner, Tasha Joseph and the women who posted comments about him, a victory.

Here is what happened…

(From the Associated Press and found on The Burgh Blog)

Judge R. Stanton Wettick Jr. ruled he has no jurisdiction over part of the lawsuit Todd Hollis filed last June against DontDateHimGirl.com and its creator, Tasha C. Cunningham, 34, of Miami.

Hollis, of Pittsburgh, claimed Cunningham’s site is liable because it solicits negative comments but does not screen them for truthfulness. Hollis also is also suing those who posted comments that questioned his sexuality and said he tried to dodge paying child support.

The judge let stand the attorney’s defamation claims against seven women who posted messages criticizing him on the site.

Cunningham and her attorneys say a 1996 federal law shields Web sites from such lawsuits.

Wettick did not address that issue. He simply ruled that Pennsylvania’s court system has no jurisdiction over a Florida Web site, even though Pennsylvanians post messages on it. The ruling, issued Thursday, does not address Hollis’ still-pending claims against women who posted the messages.

Hollis said he did not learn of the judge’s decision until The Associated Press called him for comment Tuesday. Hollis has not decided whether to sue the Web site again in another venue.

The way I see it…

This really cannot be considered a "victory" because the battle was never fought! The judge simply did not "address" the issue because it was filed in the wrong venue. Since DDHG resides in Florida, the lawsuit should have been filed in Florida and not in Pennsylvania.

Seems to me that if Mr. Hollis is as self assured, arrogant and angry as he appeared on the Dr. Phil Show, he will most certainly file a new lawsuit against DDHG in the Sunshine State!

My thoughts on this whole thing…

I stand by my original opinion of Don't Date Him Girl. It is a platform for the rantings and ravings of women at their worst. These women are hurting, angry and looking for revenge - with a capital "R"!

As one woman stated on Dr. Phil, she posted while she was angry. Had a "cooler head prevailed", she admitted she may not have posted at all, or at the very least, her post might not have been so "intense".

While I do believe in "freedom of speech" as Tasha is clearly defending, I also believe in the "right to privacy" and fair play. Obviously, one conflicts with the other in this case. I don't believe that anyone should be allowed to make allegations, true or false, publicly in anonymity. The accused has the right to know his accusor and be offered an equal path of recourse.

I think that both Todd Hollis and Tasha Joseph (Cunningham) have valid points to be argued.

Tasha, as I stated in my last article, has covered her butt very well legally. The DDHG "terms of use" squarely place the liability for slander on the shoulders of those posting to her site. I don't think for one second that Todd Hollis, even if he chooses to file his suit again in Florida, has a "snowball's chance in hell" of winning. Ms. Joseph is protected legally and cannot be held responsible for the rantings of angry women.

On behalf of Todd Hollis, I do believe that he has the right to privacy and an equal avenue of recourse against his accusers. Defamation of character can have devestating and widespread effects on a person and their family. Occassionally, good and undeserving people are intentionally hurt by false allegations fueled by hurt and anger.

Should his request to remove his profile have been granted? I think so. We have the legal right to opt out of other forms of harrassment in life. That's what restraining orders are for and to a lesser degree, the National Do Not Call Registry…

The point is, as I have always believed, nothing in life is absolute! There are two sides to every story. Everything is not either black or white. There are always shades of grey that keep us uncertain and guessing!

This debate could continue until "hell froze over" with no resolution.

Are values, ethics and human rights being compromised?

Yup…everyday, all over the world. We are humans…it's what we do!

If you want to read more on this topic, you can hear from both Todd Hollis and Tasha Joseph on MNspeak.com. You can also check out the Online Dating Industry Journel.


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Often a man thinks that in order to win back his cheating wife, he needs to dote on her, wait on her and cater to her every little whim.

Actually, nothing could be further from the truth.

By doing this, you are exposing yourself as being desperate and needy. Two qualities that women do not find attractive in a man.

As crazy as it may sound, what your cheating wife really needs is a little space!

Below is an excellent article that explains this concept and how it can help you win you wife back!


Emotional Infidelity: A KEY Tactic to Save the Marriage

By Dr. Robert Huizenga

Hearing that your cheating spouse is "in love" with someone else is devastating. I hear often, "I can handle her having sex with someone else. I think I can live with that. But, for her to give herself emotionally and "love" someone else…man, that is hard." (Feel free to substitute the word he for she in this article.)

What can you specifically do to increase the odds of saving the marriage?

So often the offended spouse reacts with intense feelings and pulls out all stops to "win her back."

He applies pressure. Begs. Cajoles. Makes promises. Gets in her face. Sends flowers. Arranges for dates. Talks to her family and friends. Calls her on the phone. Asks questions…daily, sometimes hourly. He is on her like a fly on doo-doo.

It doesn’t work. Why? Well, for one reason she has found all the stimulation and excitement she supposedly needs in her new found "love."

At a deeper level this is confusing enough for the cheating husband or cheating wife. Any additional input will be overwhelming and she is liable to close the door on the marriage even further. Plus, she is really looking for some stability, some solid centered core that will hold her firm when the wind of drama entices her and blows around her.

If you bombard her with your neediness, you are certainly not the person who can help her in ways she really seeks.

She also is liable to create a polarity and begin comparing you to him. With your neediness dripping all over you, you don’t stand a very good chance of coming out on top. Sorry!

Here’s a tactic that helps solve the dilemma and gives you a greater chance of saving the marriage. It’s called "back off!"

Stop pressing. Slow down the pace. Be silent - most of the time. Stop making requests. Stop asking questions. Stop trying to wiggle out some assurance. Stop being a pain!

Remember, this "in love" state will fade. You need to have the confidence that it will. You need patience. The relationship will run its course.

She needs the space. She needs some quiet moments to truly hear herself and face the emptiness within. There will be a voice within her that says, "This will not last. Is this what I really want? At some time I must live in the real world. Where is this taking me? Is this where I really want to go? Why am I so dependent on him? Why do I feel this empty pit in my stomach when I’m not with him? What does this say about me?"

This is her opportunity to learn about TRUE love. Don’t get in her way.

I know. I know. This is easier said than done. But, you must do it. It is vitally important that you learn to quiet yourself, control yourself and keep on the straight and narrow path.

At this point with those I coach, I teach them a skill called "charging neutral" to help "back off." Use that skill.This will take some effort. It might take some coaching or therapy. It most likely will demand that you get to know yourself better, that you gain more confidence in you - apart from what she does with him - that you build a strong foundation under yourself that can weather any storm.

This is your opportunity to grow to another level.

Oh, by the way. She will notice! And…she might like it.

Backing off does not mean that you don’t have anything to do with her. Quite the contrary. You want to maintain your contact with her, but it will be QUALITY contact. It will be contact that does honor to you, confronts her with the reality of her decisions and works toward resolution for the marriage.

Summary: Less often means more when facing emotional_infidelity. Learning a specific skill such as "backing off" enhances one's chance to save the marriage.

Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach, has helped hundreds of couples over the past two decades heal from the agony of extramarital affairs and survive infidelity. Visit his website at: Break Free From The Affair


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Good Grief!

I stumbled across a site today that kind of blew my mind. Now I know that we women can be quite vindictive but, "Geez Louise"…is this even legal?

Ladies…let's have a little "man bashing" shall we?

Don't Date Him Girl! has been around for about 18 months. The owner of the website justifies it's existence as being "sisterhood" where women can warn other women about potentially dangerous or unsavory males.

In reality, this cutesy, pretty pink site really consists of the rantings and ravings of women at their worst. These women are hurting, angry and looking for revenge - with a capital "R"!

What better way to "get even" with a cheater than to splash his profile on a website that has gained national attention through major TV news networks, talk shows and national publications such as People and USA Today?

Some of the posts will literally stand your hair on end. The accusations are graphic and intended to cut to the bone. Many include personal contact information on the "guilty scumbag" as well as their photo.

None of the posted allegations require proof and becoming a contributing member requires nothing more than a "user id" and an email address.

So, in complete anonymity, on a bad day, suffering from PMS, a mood swing or an other "female affliction" that excuses my poor behavior…I can nail some guy's ass to the wall just because he pissed me off!

I am woman.
I am mad.
Hear me roar.

I do not wish to paint all women in a bad light, after all, I am one of them. But, being one of them does make me painfully aware that the term "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" did not come from nowhere! We really can be "bitches" at times.

The owner of Don't Date Him Girl! claims that she intends to start a male version of the site called "Don't Date Her Guy!" However, she (you aren't surprised that the owner is a "she" are you?) has reservations about the new site.

"Men will probably just use the site not to warn other men but just slander," she says. "You know, insult women, or say, 'She's a bitch,' or something derogatory."
source: Miami New Times

Really…ya think? Shame on you men! The woman posting on DDHG would never do such a thing! Yeah right!

If you think this site is a good idea, think before you rush off to post.

Pittsburgh criminal defense attorney Todd Hollis doesn't. He found himself listed on DDHG and wasn't amused. He has filed a lawsuit against Tasha Joseph (the owner), and seven individuals who allegedly posted the remarks, for defamation.

The DDHG "Terms of Use" seem to cover the site owner's butt pretty well, clearly putting the liability for false postings and allegations on the author…YOU!

We have yet to see this play out in court, but, what if Hollis is successful? There will be hundreds of men like those responding to this post on Freedom To Differ jumping on the bandwagon.

Can anyone say "class action"?

The Miami New Times has an excellent, in depth article about this site.

Before you post, you really should read it!




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Why do women wear short skirts? Ruby red lipstick? Push-up bras?

Because we know guys are very visually oriented. They can't help but look. It's just human_nature for them. And guess what? We women count on it!

That's probably what got your husband/partner to notice you in the first place, right?

Yes, I know women say they want to be appreciated for their brains and not their bodies. So, why waste all of that time "fanning your feathers" during the courting stage? Why not just let them see what they are really going to end up with right from the start? You know, the small boobs, the flannel pj's, the face mask and the rollers in the hair?

Because we know that we wouldn't have a chance in hell of catching any guy if we really "slipped into something more comfortable"!

We tease and tantalize defenseless men with what they can least resist and once we "reel them in" then what?

Poor guy doesn't know what hit him! Where did that luscious, sexy "babe" go that he fell in love with? And who is that over weight woman on the couch in the oversized, terry bathrobe and towel turban?

How could a man have the audacity to "look" at another woman while being married to you?

They can't help it!

You are no longer providing that visual "eye candy" that causes him to involuntarily trip over his tongue.

Be honest…can you blame him?

Want to keep him interested?

Stay in shape and fan those tail feathers girl!


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