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You Want A Faithful Lifelong Companion?

June 27, 2011 by Cindy English · Leave a Comment 

Okay…this is just for fun… What creature on earth will… …Be completely faithful until “death do you part”? …Offer you [tag-tec]unconditional love[/tag-tec] and friendship no matter what kind of a mood you are in? …Always be there to comfort you and support you when you need them the most? …Not be judgmental or critical of [...]

Shorts Skirts – Fan Those Tail Feathers!

June 26, 2011 by Cindy English · 2 Comments 

Why do women wear short skirts? Ruby red lipstick? Push-up bras? Because we know guys are very visually oriented. They can’t help but look. It’s just human_nature for them. And guess what? We women count on it! That’s probably what got your husband/partner to notice you in the first place, right? Yes, I know women [...]

Do Marriage Counselors Do More HARM Than Good?

June 26, 2011 by Cindy English · Leave a Comment 

I have never been a fan of marriage counselors or psychiatrists. 125 to 150 bucks an hour is a high price to pay for someone else’s opinion. I have also never been really clear on why their opinions should be considered “right” and mine wrong either. Training, yes. A study of psychology and human behavior [...]

30 Reasons Not To Leave Your Husband

August 16, 2009 by bcalendar · 10 Comments 

Over the past few weeks I’ve spent a lot of time here talking about why having an affair can be a fun, liberating and enormously erotic experience for any woman. It can recharge your batteries, make you feel feminine and remind you of just how desirable you are. Plus, it can be good clean fun! [...]

Supreme Self Confidence – Reviewed

December 30, 2008 by Cindy English · 1 Comment 

Here is a look at a self-help book entitled Supreme Self Confidence published by Slade Shaw. The reason that I chose to buy and review this book was because I think the biggest and most damaging side effect to a victim of infidelity is low self esteem. For me, self doubt, feelings of inadequacy, shyness [...]

How Did We End Up Like This?

November 17, 2007 by Cindy English · 5 Comments 

How did it go so wrong? Have you ever asked yourself that? Have you ever sat there and wondered how two people who were so much in love ended up where you are now? Me too. Been there. Done that. “Have the t-shirt”… as they say. Thinking about my own failed marriage, I realize that [...]

Uncle Sam Is To Blame!

October 8, 2007 by Cindy English · 2 Comments 

This article is just my rambling thoughts about serial monogamy or multiple marriages. I have been thinking more about “Julie”, the woman I spoke of in the article “Children Are The Real Victims Of Infidelity“. Apart from a fear of being alone, I think that money, or rather the lack or it, is a serious [...]

Sex Is Really Just A Mind Game

August 19, 2007 by Cindy English · Leave a Comment 

If I had to pick the one thing responsible for both the best and the worst of relationships, it would be the mind. The mind is a very powerful thing and sex and relationships are very much a mind game. Have you ever seen a beautiful person with a rather homely partner and wondered why? [...]

If Your Spouse Is Cheating…

August 12, 2007 by Cindy English · Leave a Comment 

Knowing or suspecting that your spouse is cheating on you is devastating. It can create an emotional tidal wave that you will find almost impossible to control. You will experience shock, anger, disbelief, confusion, hate, love, self-doubt, fear, depression, and low self-esteem all in a continuous, stomach churning succession. Having been there, I can tell [...]

How To Get The Man Of Your Dreams

June 10, 2007 by Cindy English · 1 Comment 

The “Relationship Doctor” – Bob Grant, has just released his newest book – “How To Get The Man Of Your Dreams”. I became a fan of Bob Grant’s after recently reading one of his books entitled “How Do I Get Him Back?” I liked his approach – don’t focus on each other’s faults – understand [...]

A Cheating Story – Could This Be You?

June 3, 2007 by Cindy English · 7 Comments 

I was one of the walking wounded…the cheated. My story is not “unique” by any stretch of the imagination. In fact, it is almost a cliché! Sadly, hundreds of good women will see themselves in my story. But, just because it is so familiar, doesn’t make it any less painful for each woman who endures [...]

Emotional Infidelity – Back Off!

April 9, 2007 by admin · 1 Comment 

Often a man thinks that in order to win back his cheating wife, he needs to dote on her, wait on her and cater to her every little whim. Actually, nothing could be further from the truth. By doing this, you are exposing yourself as being desperate and needy. Two qualities that women do not [...]

The Anatomy Of An Affair

March 26, 2007 by Cindy English · 2 Comments 

Dr. Reena Sommer, Ph.D., has authored a very helpful book called “The Anatomy Of An Affair“. I read the book and found it to be very helpful. What I appreciated most about it was a calm and sensible approach to understanding why an affair happens in the first place. Often times, we get hung up [...]

How Do I Get Him Back?

March 13, 2007 by Cindy English · 5 Comments 

A lot of women who visit OCW ask: “How do I get him back?” At on point, following the break up of my marriage, that question was first and foremost on my mind too. In my search for a clearer understanding of relationships and in particular, “what makes men tick”, I happened to cross “cyber-paths” [...]

Your Cheating Wife Does NOT Mean Inevitable Divorce!

March 8, 2007 by admin · 9 Comments 

Finally, someone who gets it! I found this terrific article written by Larry Bilotta entitled: Does a Cheating Wife Inevitably Lead to Divorce?. This article thrilled me to no end because finally, I found someone who thinks as I do about the whole [tag-tec]infidelity[/tag-tec] issue. Stop pointing a finger and laying the blame and try [...]

Loving Two Men At The Same Time

February 20, 2007 by Cindy English · 51 Comments 

Have you ever found yourself in this situation? This is not uncommon. Many women have at some point in their lives asked themselves: “Is possible to love_two_men at the same time?” Now before you go off on a self-righteous, “no, you are dishonest and selfish” tantrum, think about it! What is the absolute definition of [...]

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