Staying Together

30 Reasons Not To Leave Your Husband

August 16, 2009 by bcalendar · 5 Comments 

Over the past few weeks I've spent a lot of time here talking about why having an affair can be a fun, liberating and enormously erotic experience for any woman. It can recharge your batteries, make you feel feminine and remind you of just how desirable you are. Plus, it can be good clean fun!

But, we live in a monogamy centered culture – which is why people often ask me: “If you really feel the need to have an affair, why not just divorce your husband and simply be with the man you want to be with?”
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Sex Is Really Just A Mind Game

August 19, 2007 by Cindy English · Leave a Comment 

If I had to pick the one thing responsible for both the best and the worst of relationships, it would be the mind.

The mind is a very powerful thing and sex and relationships are very much a mind game.

Have you ever seen a beautiful person with a rather homely partner and wondered why?

If you really think about it, we love people because of the way they make us feel about ourselves.

It's not because they are good looking, or great in bed, or who they are…it is about whether or not they make us feel good about ourselves.

Look at it this way…

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Emotional Infidelity – Back Off!

April 9, 2007 by admin · 1 Comment 

Often a man thinks that in order to win back his cheating wife, he needs to dote on her, wait on her and cater to her every little whim.

Actually, nothing could be further from the truth.

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You Want A Faithful Lifelong Companion?

March 23, 2007 by Cindy English · Leave a Comment 

What creature on earth will…

…Be completely faithful until "death do you part"?
…Offer you unconditional_love and friendship no matter what kind of a mood you are in?
…Always be there to comfort you and support you when you need them the most?
…Not be judgmental or critical of your mistakes?
…Accept you just the way you are?
…Freely give hugs and kisses without you having to ask?
…Always be patient, tolerant and kind?

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Shorts Skirts – Fan Those Tail Feathers!

March 16, 2007 by Cindy English · 2 Comments 

Why do women wear short skirts? Ruby red lipstick? Push-up bras?

Because we know guys are very visually oriented. They can't help but look. It's just human_nature for them. And guess what? We women count on it!

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How Do I Get Him Back?

March 13, 2007 by Cindy English · 4 Comments 

A lot of women who visit OCW ask:

"How do I get him back?"

At on point, following the break up of my marriage, that question was first and foremost on my mind too.

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Do Marriage Counselors Do More HARM Than Good?

March 11, 2007 by Cindy English · Leave a Comment 

I have never been a fan of marriage counselors or psychiatrists. 125 to 150 bucks an hour is a high price to pay for someone else's opinion.

I have also never been really clear on why their opinions should be considered "right" and mine wrong either.

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Your Cheating Wife Does NOT Mean Inevitable Divorce!

March 8, 2007 by admin · 6 Comments 

Finally, someone who gets it!

I found this terrific article written by Larry Bilotta entitled: Does a Cheating Wife Inevitably Lead to Divorce?.

This article thrilled me to no end because finally, I found someone who thinks as I do about the whole infidelity issue.

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Orgasms – Was It Good For You?

January 21, 2007 by Cindy English · 2 Comments 

Sounds like a dumb question doesn't it? Not at all!

In spite of our increasing sexual awareness, lack of information or misinformation can often cause problems for many couples.

Sex therapists claim that passionate, intimate, mind-blowing sex is the key to a happy, lasting relationship. Porn movies depict insatiable couples consumed by hot, creamy, multiple eruptions.

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