Do you need guidance on "how to cheat on your spouse" successfully?

As stupid as it sounds, there is a "self help" book called Designing Infidelity written by J. Frances just for you, the would-be adulterer.

She says: "Having an affair is not rocket science; it’s merely a matter of the heart, your heart."

To hell with your partner's heart I guess!

Here is what "Designing Infidelity - A Reference Guide to the Art of Cheating to Perfection" has to offer your cheating heart…

"Designing Infidelity" is a complete, informative reference guide that outlines the do’s and don'ts, fine tunes your awareness to the details that most often slip through the cracks and leads you through the preparation and survival process of your extramarital affair.

Written by an authority on and , this guide provides you with first hand factual information and knowledge that can only be shared through the very personal experiences of people who have dabbled in the art of domestic treachery and duplicity.

Open the book on "everything you needed to know about Infidelity" and lessen the odds of getting caught.

"Written by an authority on deception and extramarital relationships"

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You know, you don't have to be cheating on your spouse to need a good privacy software such as Evidence Eraser.

There could be any number of reasons to want to wipe out your surfing history - some innocent, some not so innocent.

  • You may be doing a little at work during your "lunch break" but your company forbids the use of the office computer for personal use. Where's the harm in that? It is your lunch break right? The harm is that your surfing history is recorded and can be easily reviewed by your company if they are monitoring computer usage with a stealth computer monitoring software such as WebWatcher. You may not even know your activities are being watched.
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I stumbled upon this book a while back on Dr. Phil's web site.

Since Dr. Phil is known worldwide for his "relationship advice" through his T.V. show and his own vast array of relationship and self help books, I thought that The More You Know might be a worthwhile read.

wouldn't risk his reputation by representing a dud book would he?

Well, I have finally had the time to download and read this book from cover to cover and I have to say, Dr. Phil didn't let me down!

The More You Know by Bill Mitchell, is indeed an excellent book and definitely worth recommending! I would not hesitate to say that it is probably the most practical, informative and helpful book that I have read on the subject of infidelity.

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The "Relationship Doctor" - Bob Grant, has just released his newest book - "How To Get The Man Of Your Dreams".

I became a fan of Bob Grant's after recently reading one of his books entitled "How Do I Get Him Back?"

I liked his approach - don't focus on each other's faults - understand each other's differences!

For any woman confused as to why her man has left and how to get him back, this book will provide some answers.

It will also help to determine if you really want him back!
I highly recommend it.




This latest book is also quite good!

"How To Get The Man Of Your
Dreams"
is for any woman who has yet to find "Mr. Right".

What I took away from this book was a sense that women too often allow pure emotion guide their choice in a when in fact, a little practicality is needed.

It makes sense!

You don't just buy a car because it smells new and looks pretty, you also check to see if it suits your needs. Does it have enough leg room? Is is good on gas? Does it have a good warranty? Comfortable seats? How about the sound system?

We are picky when making other choices in our life, yet when it comes to choosing our mates, we often let the "heat of the moment" cloud our judgment leaving us disappointed later.

Yup! Been there - done that!

In Bob's book, he leads you down a path of self discovery before you even begin your first date with someone new. He teaches you to identify the "non-negotiable" qualities, the things you "must have" in your ideal partner. This should be a very important step in finding the man of your dreams! I think too many women "settle" for less than they hoped for in a man. According to Bob Grant, it is not necessary for any woman to do this.

Understanding how a woman's behavior is perceived by a man is very useful and the book offers a step by step behavior plan for your first six dates to ensure that you give your prospective husband the right impression!

One very good bit of advice for first dates…

Let him do the talking and do not volunteer too much information too soon. The one who is "listening" is the one who is in control and you want to be the one in control. This will make perfect sense to you once you read the book!

This book leaves no stone unturned. It tells you everything you need to know to find, capture and marry the man of your dreams within the next twelve months!

  • Where should you look?
  • How long should your first date last?
  • What about ?
  • Is he the marrying type?
  • What is his "lover trigger"? No…that is not it! I know what you are thinking! ;)

I think the book is definitely worth the money. If I had one complaint, it would not be about the book itself. It would be that, as I have always suspected, men "frighten" easily. You must be gentle with them or risk scaring them away.

Big babies!

What it all boils down to is this…getting a good man requires patience and applied behavior modification techniques.

It is also prudent to remember your mother's warning…

"Why buy the cow when you can milk it through the fence?"

"How To Get The Man Of Your
Dreams"





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    Are you a little concerned about your email privacy?

    Perhaps you have a "little secret" that you really don't need your partner or spouse to find out about.

    Maybe you are involved in an online affair.

    I have told you before, that armed with the right computer monitoring software, your online activities are no secret.

    For just a few dollars, your partner can download a stealth surveillance software that will leave you exposed with nowhere to hide!

    Just like that old song by Police

    Every move you make
    Every vow you break
    I'll be watching you…

    Winclear Privacy Software won't clear your conscience but it will clear your Internet history so effectively that you can breath easy.

    Is extremely easy to install and use which makes it a five star favorite among the sea of privacy softwares out there to choose from. It supports all popular web browsers such as Internet Explorer, Mozilla, Firefox, AOL, Netscape, Opera, and MSN Explorer.

    It's fast, it's safe and with one click and this nifty little program will eliminate all traces of your Internet activity.

    If you are not sure whether you need privacy software or not, just download and run the free scan that Winclear offers. You'll be surprised at what you find!

    Winclear




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    I thought that I would check out the Ashley Madison Agency to see what was special about it.

    For those of you unfamiliar with the Ashley Madison Agency, it is a web site that caters to a sometimes overlooked but growing dating niche…married dating. Yup, dating isn't just for singles anymore.




    Since the site has gained a lot of media attention since it's inception back in 2002, I guess I was expecting something unique.

    To be honest, I would have to say that I was disappointed and totally uninspired by my visit. Here's my overall impression…

    The Pros…

    • You can create a free profile - no credit card info is need.
    • You are not required to give your name or your address so anonymity is guaranteed.
    • You only reveal information about yourself when the time is right for you.
    • The caters to people in the US, Canada, UK and Ireland.
    • There is this cute little "panic button" at the top of the page that allows you to "escape" to a sales page for a Fax Machine should someone enter the room.
    • Although you can purchase a 3 or 6 month membership which allows you to initiate contact with others, you can also "pay as you play" buying credits as you need them which might be cheaper. You can purchase 100 credits for $55. An email message to a new contact costs you 5 credits while a 20 minute instant messaging session will cost you 10 credits.

    The Cons…

    • I found the site design to be very amateurish and unappealing. I guess it shouldn't matter, but it did to me. Maybe I just hate the color purple, I don't know.
    • The profiles were uninformative, focusing mainly on what type of sexual encounter you are looking for. I guess that stands to reason though. The purpose of the site is to help you find your next "roll in the hay" not a . Who cares if you're into surfing right?
    • Photos are rare on this site so there's not a lot to look at. You have to initiate contact based on profiles and unfortunately, many of them have little or no original content on them. Doesn't give you a lot to go on. Call me superficial, but I want to see who I am talking to because, I am sorry, but, looks do matter! Even if it's only a . Who wants to waste time chatting with someone only to find out, you really can't stand looking at them?

    On the bright side, if you are married and looking, want anonymity and results, check out the Ashley Madison Agency.

    I signed up yesterday. I put absolutely nothing in my profile and I already have 26 messages:


    "I can't wait to show you…
    How I am going to rock your world!"

    Just because I wasn't impressed with Ashley Madison…doesn't mean you won't be! They must be doing something right…they've been around for 5 years.

    Rock On!


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