Relationships At Risk

In Love With Two Men At Once – POTC

June 20, 2011 by admin · 2 Comments 

Okay…this one is just for fun. Is it possible to love two people at once? I know that “The Pirates Of The Caribbean” is just a movie but every movie has some basis in real life. This issue of loving two people at the same time does come up time and time again in real [...]

Do You Have A Cyber-Marriage?

June 18, 2011 by Cindy English · 1 Comment 

Okay, I was listening to a little video on 60 Minutes today about a married couple who claim that they do not spend more than one hour per week talking to each other! These two intelligent adults say that although “it would be nice” to actually get together and talk face to face once in [...]

Dew On The Lily

October 25, 2008 by Cindy English · 2 Comments 

My ex-husband asked me this once when I came home from a little get together at a girlfriend’s house… “So, is there any dew on the lily?” Dew on the lily? Are you kidding me? Nope! In his own colorful way, he was asking me if I had cheated on him! Why is it that [...]

How Did We End Up Like This?

November 17, 2007 by Cindy English · 5 Comments 

How did it go so wrong? Have you ever asked yourself that? Have you ever sat there and wondered how two people who were so much in love ended up where you are now? Me too. Been there. Done that. “Have the t-shirt”… as they say. Thinking about my own failed marriage, I realize that [...]

Uncle Sam Is To Blame!

October 8, 2007 by Cindy English · 2 Comments 

This article is just my rambling thoughts about serial monogamy or multiple marriages. I have been thinking more about “Julie”, the woman I spoke of in the article “Children Are The Real Victims Of Infidelity“. Apart from a fear of being alone, I think that money, or rather the lack or it, is a serious [...]

Beware Of The Cyber Affair!

July 15, 2007 by Cindy English · Leave a Comment 

Never believe that a cyber affair is anything less than a serious threat to your relationship. “I didn’t mean for it to happen…it just did.” Have you ever heard that from a spouse or a partner who cheated on you? The chances are very good that they were telling the truth. It is possible that… [...]

I Am Likely To Have An Affair – Are You?

July 15, 2007 by Cindy English · 2 Comments 

I found this interesting questionaire on the BBC Site in the Science & Nature: Human Body & Mind section. The questionaire was written at the London Institute of Psychiatry and is designed to assess the likelihood of you having an affair. I have always thought that out of sheer boredom more people would have affairs [...]

Top 10 Reasons Why Men Cheat

April 4, 2007 by Cindy English · 111 Comments 

The question is as old as the problem itself… Why do men cheat? Is monogamy really a myth? Are guys predestined to cheat because it is human nature? Scientists have long explained that men are biologically motivated to seek out multiple sex partners. This natural instinct ensures a healthy gene pool and the survival of [...]

The Anatomy Of An Affair

March 26, 2007 by Cindy English · 2 Comments 

Dr. Reena Sommer, Ph.D., has authored a very helpful book called “The Anatomy Of An Affair“. I read the book and found it to be very helpful. What I appreciated most about it was a calm and sensible approach to understanding why an affair happens in the first place. Often times, we get hung up [...]

Are You Addicted To Cyber Sex?

February 25, 2007 by Cindy English · 7 Comments 

Cyber sex, or [tag-tec]Internet infidelity[/tag-tec] is not something to be taken lightly.The Internet is a virtual playground for those tempted to cheat.Email, instant messaging, web cams, and porn/dating sites are dangerous tools in the hands of a lonely or dissatisfied spouse! What starts out as innocent “chat” can quickly turn very personal and sexual.The Center [...]

Loving Two Men At The Same Time

February 20, 2007 by Cindy English · 51 Comments 

Have you ever found yourself in this situation? This is not uncommon. Many women have at some point in their lives asked themselves: “Is possible to love_two_men at the same time?” Now before you go off on a self-righteous, “no, you are dishonest and selfish” tantrum, think about it! What is the absolute definition of [...]

Why Men Don’t Like To Talk About Their Feelings

February 18, 2007 by admin · 1 Comment 

I really believe that the main reason that men and women have trouble sustaining long term [tag-tec]relationships[/tag-tec] is very simple… We do not understand each other! Men and women are from the same species and there the similarity ends. We aren’t built the same, we don’t act the same and we certainly don’t think anything [...]

“5 Things You Shouldn’t Do If He’s Cheating on You”

February 13, 2007 by admin · Leave a Comment 

© Ruth Houston This may be the most important report you’ll read about dealing with your husband’s affair. There’s plenty of information available on what to do if your husband is cheating. But very little has been written about the things you shouldn’t do. You just found out your husband is cheating on you. You’re [...]

Now That I Know He’s Cheating What Should I Do?

February 11, 2007 by Cindy English · 2 Comments 

When I first discovered my husband’s [tag-ice]infidelity[/tag-ice] I was so devastated. I was an emotional “basket case”. We had been married for 15 years and sort of “grew up” together. I could not imagine life without him and his 12 year old daughter thought the sun rose and set on her “Dear Old Dad”. At [...]

Are You Tempted To Cheat?

January 16, 2007 by Cindy English · 11 Comments 

How many of us if we were 100 percent honest would admit that at some point, we have wanted to cheat on a partner or spouse? I know that I certainly have and let me say that I consider myself to be a ‘good’ person with sensible moral values. By sensible, I mean that I [...]