Ashley Madison – Romantic Rendezvous For Attached Adults

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1. angela says:

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   i like them..can you teach me how to do that..?

   who want some

   >SEX
2. Jenn says:

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   You know, I don't condone swingers- seeking other partners while maintaining a stable relationship is, like you stated in your article, something the couple AGREES to do. Ashley Madison doesn't provide that kind of service. They say (and this comes directly from a radio ad): "You're in a relationship, right? Want to have an affair anyway?"

   An agreement between a couple and an affair are two totally different things. And this site is promoting itself on the basis that having an affair is 100% ok. It's not "OK". In fact, by having an affair, you're giving your marriage a giant middle finger. Why even bother to take the vows if you're just going to turn your back on them? It's repulsive.

   All in all, what happens between a couple is their business. If they want to seek out sites like Ashley Madison… that is their choice (it's not my life or my marriage they're ruining; I'm not even married or dating so I have nothing to worry about)… but don't put this kind of site out on the front lines for everyone to know about. On the radio? Little kids can tune in and hear that stuff! If I had a child and they came to me and said, "Mommy… I heard on the radio it's OK to cheat on my husband.." you better believe I would be pissed beyond belief. And you can't tell me you wouldn't be either.
3. Linda says:

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   I think the whole lot of you are DISGUSTING! Do you take ANYTHING in life seriously? Cheating is for cowards! You people are pathetic!
4. Darlene says:

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   I take everything seriously Linda…you may go polish your Halo now!
5. Laura says:

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   It's really sad that now people are lowering themselves to thinking that it is a normal thing to do. Cheating is not right, it's never been right. If you want to cheat, then don't bother having a relationship. It's not worth hurting someone else just for an orgasm. And Darlene, if you are a cheater, I'd go and take a look at the mirror, see how you really feel about yourself at the end of the day, and if it's not guilt, you need some help.
6. Boss Hawg says:

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   What do I think? Uhhh well, I think it is natural for men and women to want one another whether as a committed couple or not. Ashely Madison facilitates this for those in need.

   As for me, I am 54 and have been with well over 500 women as a younger man with never an STD! You probably will say oh my god…well you 3 need put your fingers where it feels good to ya cause only 4 were one nighters!

   Come on Jenn, Linda and Laura…haven't you ever seen a man that just makes your panties wet? Are you women a bunch of prudes with vibrators hidden in the panty drawer? This is national masterbation month and I would suggest you 3 let loose a little and learn more about your true desires whether you want to admit it here or not. I bet you would love it if you could be open with your sexual fantasies and desires. You women are the worst to talk about hot looking actors and what you would do to them if they were in your bed…wicked evil grin.

   Jenn, Linda and Laura, get a grip…get out and get some as they say…come home and tell what you did with a co-worker in the supply closet or parking garage. It's hot and you would love it. Hell, I bet your boyfriends or husbands would love it too! My lady loves it when I come home to her and tell what I did! Makes for great sex at home too!

   As for Darlene, I sure would like to know more.
7. msreddy says:

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   my request for joining in this could not be processed for the state of the location. what are the other means to join.MSREDDY
8. rahul says:

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   i want to know about ashleymadison in India.,.,what to do and how to contact
9. tphil3376 says:

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   i would love to have some mad passionate sweaty sex. all night long.
10. debs says:

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    ashley madison isn't in india but I think adult friend finder and at least craigslist is. You'll find lots of willing partners on those sites.

    make sure to do your research first and search for affair tips so you can cheat and not get caught!
11. waseem says:

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    i need some madison for my pick
    my friend tell me ur pick is smol
12. Marebear2406 says:

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    If your that bored with your sex life or feeling trapped by marriage, then do the right thing and get a divorce. I agree with Linda. Cheating is pathetic. When you get married your taking a vow to stay with the one person your with, and to be with them for the rest of your life. If your going to cheat, don't bother getting married. Life's not a garden, stop being such a hoe.
13. Andy says:

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    Ashley Madison is proof positive of the decadence and hatefulness of what’s left of our society. It's fascinating that people who are true to each other and keep their promises are snidely referred to as "holier than thou" while the liars, phonies and cheating hypocrites are now cool people who aren't "hung up"… or something. The slimy euphemisms make evil good and good evil, or at least boring. War is peace.
14. Shelley says:

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    I love my husband very much and would lay down my life for him. We laugh together, enjoy nice nights out together, and make good love together. However, we don't have great sex and there's the difference. No matter how often I've expressed my wants in the bedroom (and yes they are wants and not needs but no less relevant) he reverts to the standard lovemaking techniques that are not always satisfying. Ladies, be real, the same-old-same-old is just that, no matter if it produces an orgasm or not. I started to become bitter and was pulling away from him sexually. However, when I indulged in an extra-marital affair and my other needs were being met, I felt less resentful toward him and could actually relax and enjoy our traditional lovemaking knowing that was his style but that I didn't have to be limited to it. Having those wild nights of abandon (that he won't give me) keeps me evenly centered. Call it selfish if you want, but in the end, I don't want to leave him for anyone else.
15. alen says:

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    hi.
16. brandy says:

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    This ad is promoting men to cheat All the ads suggest that the men have a big problem on their hands,their big, fat,and ugly wife. I'm a woman that deserves excellence and I think that his wife has a big problem: a fat undeserving slob.He is probably the one that is to blame for his sucky sex life ever heard of EDD. His wife is willing to stay with him ,even though he is a fat slob,but as soon she puts on a few pounds he is ready to have affair. Well who the fuck is he. This website can go both ways and men out there should be against it as well. Because just like men can replace women they can find themselves replaced too. Beware men, because if u are broken what the hell makes u think another woman wants to fix ur ass.lol peace
17. Alexis says:

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    Since when is having some type of moral code the equivalent of being "holier than thou" or "a prude". I'm a fairly young woman and I am not yet married but I know marriage is not something that I'd take lightly. When you get married you make a vow and a contract to your spouse to be faithful to them and only them. Now if y'all decide as a couple to alter these vows between the two of you, that's your business. But when you sneak behind somebodies back, it's deceitful and low. I agree with what Jenn says 100%. If you want to stick your thing every where or get some from every Tom, Dick, and Harry then you should have thought about that before getting married. Or talk to your spouse about swinging before you get married so that you don't have to lie to them later. Now I may be a prude but I know carnal desires are strong but when you are commited to someone you should be COMMITED!
18. Laura says:

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    I just can't believe what I am reading. If you're having to sneak around behind your spouses back and don't want them to know then obviously your marriage is over or on the verge. How can someone just disrespect their so called love of their life like that? Vows are meant to be something. I can understand having sex is an issue. Agreeing to be in a open marriage is fine, having threesomes is fine. but sneaking around to get some ass is just wrong. How can people hurt someone they so claim to love? If you don't have the brains to talk to your spouse or get a divorce you shouldnt have married in the first place. Even if there wasn't this site people still cheat. I find it wrong, im far from a prude. I have a great sex life and have been married 10 yrs and together 12 yrs along with three kids and all the bills. But I can tell you if I ever found my husband doing this, id leave his ass. You will not marry me based on vows and then abolish them to get your thing wet. I have more respect and deserve more than that. Basically people who do this have no self respect that is so sad that, thats what society is becoming. Cheating is wrong, if both parties agree to it then hey that's fine. but sneaking around running the risk of disease and giving that disease to the person you so call are in love with is wrong!
19. Jen says:

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    I can't say that I am speaking from experience, well not as of yet. I have a similar situation that's been on going since April. Where I park off campus I was approached by a very nice looking older man, (I'm a returning student so you don't think of him as a pervert he's only 12 years older) I didn't know he was married the first few times he hit on me. At first I must admit it found it somewhat of a joke which was the main reason I kept returning, I rather enjoyed watching him fall all over himself.

    The question that reminded me of him the most was:
    ("Ever find yourself fantasizing about hot, passionate, steamy sex with a complete stranger?")
    because in September he did just that, offered himself…. and then subsequently took it back. I being the curious female that I am I decided to play his game and made a counter offer, I just simply told him to let me know if he changes his mind, boy that sure got his attention. The next time I saw him he apologized using the excuse of getting too carried away. The next time I saw him I just ignored him which went on for two months and slowly he started to try and regain my attention which only took a little over a week. Nothing physical has taken place other then his occasional need too rub my arm. I'm not sure what I find so intriguing about him that keeps me coming back, I have no plans on stopping anytime soon.
20. agata says:

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    Ok. I know several people who use Ashley Madison (and my partner and I probably would if we were married, but we are not, so the Ashley Madison people would reject us.) But here's the thing: if you have an open relationship that isn't a sketchy swingers type thing, it can be really hard to find partners, because the wedding ring puts them off. Having a dating site where people aren't bothered about the ring is not a bad thing.
    http://www.edenfantasys.com/
21. Lance says:

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    Please check with your doctor before destroying your ability to be trusted. Before just trying viagra, insist on getting your testosterone level checked. Luckily I have found a doctor with a higher I.Q. than mine and the unusual ability to listen to my reasoning. My testosterone level was low so I manned up and learned that sticking a needle deep into a muscle is a way to show your commitment to fix things with the wife. There are other options but the hypodermic solution is about 7000 times cheaper. The patch is $100 copay each month. The injection is $10 for 30 weeks plus $4 for the syringes. And it is a cool fear to overcome. If afraid to say E.D., tell your doctor about your new found friend Ed. I thought of this before going in and got a good laugh after a weird look.
22. Pamela says:

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    No one with any integrity in themselves and/or in their relationship with the one they love would need you anyway….. instant gratification which is all that sex is if there is no feelings- just getting your rocks off – is not the same as making love… and you still have to look in the mirror and like what you see. EVEN if I was single, I would not allow this as my standards for myself if nothing else are way high, and it is too easy to live down to lower standards. I would never screw someone that is in a relationship. Love is huge. Not to be taken lightly. It is a part of upbringing, manners, compassion, respect and more, plus the integrity you have within. You really think this is ok? I feel sorry for you. … Besides, I am hell of a lot more woman than you are, …. and way more romantic, so if you want some guy ejaculating all over your leg like dogs do, then go for it. Trust me then babe, I am way more good in bed than you are. lol
23. T says:

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    This is one of the most poorly reasoned arguments for infidelity that I have ever seen. Firstly, do you know the breakdown of the types of people that use ashleymadison.com? Are all of its patrons swingers or people whose spouses have consented to their joining? I'm going to guess that no swingers use this site (they really wouldn't have to as there are probably much, much better resources out there for them to find like-minded couples) and that very few, if any, of ashleymadison.com's users' spouses have consented to their joining.

    Now that we've got that really idiotic comparison out of the way (I'm just going to totally ignore your blatant ad hominem attacks on religious people, as I want to leave you with some sense of a justifiable ego after this), let's get to infidelity's drawbacks. One simple question here (it's actually rhetorical): does it hurt those partners who DO NOT partake in it? Yes, it very much does. So, how is hurting someone who has given you all of the benefits of a committed relationship not wrong? This is what I want to hear.

    Ultimately, I believe in living and letting live. If you want the benefits of a relationship while having sex with multiple partners, then I wish you the best in finding someone with similar preferences. But, to take advantage of someone who not only has sex with you, but also gives you emotional support in dark times and builds a life together with you, that's just categorically wrong; I don't need the Bible to tell me this.
24. admin says:

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    T…"as I want to leave you with some sense of a justifiable ego after this"…

    Sorry, but it would take a lot more than your opinion to bruise my ego!
    Everyone is entitled to their opinions. I have mine – you have yours – both have been voiced.

    THAT'S exactly what this site is for. Thanks for contributing!
25. M says:

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    And T didn't "bruise your ego" huh? Way to prove T right by replying to their intelligent comment with your childish reply. Your are a joke right along with your opinions. I hope to NEVER meet someone as worthless as you…..complete waste of human capital. Did your parents not hug you enough, were they divorced, did you witness "justifiable cheating" growing up, did someone hurt you….what was your excuse that makes you think that YOU are holier than thou? You are just proof that not everyone is cut from the same moral cloth as others with integrity, and instead of striving higher; you throw in the towel and take the path of least
    resistance. People like you don't believe this or even their own BS.
    You are all quitters & failures in life who fear accountability but will
    justify their lifestyle by attacking others who remain true to their word. Cheating is lying. If you can lie, what else are you capable of justifying? Is stealing or murder next on your list of acceptable behaviors?

    "admin says:
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    T…"as I want to leave you with some sense of a justifiable ego after this"…
    Sorry, but it would take a lot more than your opinion to bruise my ego!
    Everyone is entitled to their opinions. I have mine – you have yours – both have been voiced.
    THAT'S exactly what this site is for. Thanks for contributing!"
26. BB says:

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    M…my goodness! A wee bit testy aren't we?
    Sounds like you haven't had your hug today!
27. xolawill says:

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28. Albi says:

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    The Ashley Madison website's business agenda is deceptive and FAKE. You buy a certain amount of credits to email others. When your credits are exhausted, they send out a bait hoping to lure you back in. It's generally some vague email from some unknown girl with a nice pic from the website. Once you fall for the bait and buy credits, you never hear from the girl who emailed you.

    The Ashley Madison website's business agenda is deceptive and FAKE.
29. NikkiBear says:

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    I saw a commercial for Ashley Madison and wanted to know what they were all about. After reading this article I honestly have to say, i'm disgusted.
    I'm a college Junior and couldn't imagine what my life would be like if my Dad decided to have an affair on the side. It's a shame that this world condones cheating, even comes up with excuses for it, and condemns those who stand up for their morals. I'm not Holier than Thou, just more honest amd moral than thou.
    Some people shouldn't be married. If you go into marriage thinking that cheatings okay then it definitely isn't for you. I think a lull in your sex life is something you need to discuss with your spouse. Find a counselor. Nowadays there's a counselor for every problem under the sun.
    Marriage vows are just that, Vows. To blatantly disrespect in the name of good sex is disgraceful to me. If a divorce is needed, so be it. Don't screw over your marriage just because, especially if children are involved.
    I can only wonder what this world will be like when my (Future) children are grown…
30. manu says:

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31. steve says:

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32. manu says:

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33. Mike says:

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    Look here all. If sex is all we,re looking for then so be it. I love my wife with all I have but sex is also a very important part of life. My sex life is lacking so I come to sites like this to fill a part of my life that my life partner cant fill. I would give my life for her but still need more than she can give in the bedroom. Not that I am some sort of sex god or something but we all have needs that need to be fulfilled. If she were to do the same I would understand.
34. Mysecrets says:

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    I've noticed that a lot of young singles and marrieds have posted comments condemning AM. I don't think you can truly judge someone until you have walked in their shoes but I wouldn't expect anyone to condone my behavior. I have been married over 20 years and I myself would not have condoned this type of thing even a couple of years ago. I was a pretty messed up kid when I left home and ended up getting married before I knew anything about what marriage was supposed to be about. After a couple of years I realised that I had 'settled' for partner with a few compatibilities and not true life long love. I was determined, however, to make it work and I did work very hard at it while she hardly contributed anything. One of our compabilities was a very hot and satisfying sex life. Over time, while I tried to keep myself fit and attractive, she completely let herself go and had less and less desire to spend time doing anything but playing computer games. We hardly ever go out and I feel like a prisoner here. Now she has multiple health problems primarily brought on by that neglect. Our sex life is practically dead. I would leave her but she is now completely dependent on me financiaIly, emotionally and to some extent physically and I still care about her too much to leave her in that position yet I can't stand the thought of living the rest of my life so alone. I have chatted with a few nice ladies on AM but have not yet spoken on the phone or made physical contact with anyone. I can't begin to convey how uplifting it is just to talk to someone who can understand my situation, or to just be able to flirt and play for a few precious moments. I'm just saying sometimes there are circumstances…

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