Comments on: Ashley Madison – Romantic Rendezvous For Attached Adults

By: admin

admin — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 01:37:55 +0000

T…"as I want to leave you with some sense of a justifiable ego after this"…

Sorry, but it would take a lot more than your opinion to bruise my ego!
Everyone is entitled to their opinions. I have mine – you have yours – both have been voiced.

THAT'S exactly what this site is for. Thanks for contributing!

By: T

Sun, 07 Mar 2010 03:50:18 +0000

This is one of the most poorly reasoned arguments for infidelity that I have ever seen. Firstly, do you know the breakdown of the types of people that use ashleymadison.com? Are all of its patrons swingers or people whose spouses have consented to their joining? I'm going to guess that no swingers use this site (they really wouldn't have to as there are probably much, much better resources out there for them to find like-minded couples) and that very few, if any, of ashleymadison.com's users' spouses have consented to their joining.

Now that we've got that really idiotic comparison out of the way (I'm just going to totally ignore your blatant ad hominem attacks on religious people, as I want to leave you with some sense of a justifiable ego after this), let's get to infidelity's drawbacks. One simple question here (it's actually rhetorical): does it hurt those partners who DO NOT partake in it? Yes, it very much does. So, how is hurting someone who has given you all of the benefits of a committed relationship not wrong? This is what I want to hear.

Ultimately, I believe in living and letting live. If you want the benefits of a relationship while having sex with multiple partners, then I wish you the best in finding someone with similar preferences. But, to take advantage of someone who not only has sex with you, but also gives you emotional support in dark times and builds a life together with you, that's just categorically wrong; I don't need the Bible to tell me this.

By: Pamela

Pamela — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 04:15:09 +0000

No one with any integrity in themselves and/or in their relationship with the one they love would need you anyway….. instant gratification which is all that sex is if there is no feelings- just getting your rocks off – is not the same as making love… and you still have to look in the mirror and like what you see. EVEN if I was single, I would not allow this as my standards for myself if nothing else are way high, and it is too easy to live down to lower standards. I would never screw someone that is in a relationship. Love is huge. Not to be taken lightly. It is a part of upbringing, manners, compassion, respect and more, plus the integrity you have within. You really think this is ok? I feel sorry for you. … Besides, I am hell of a lot more woman than you are, …. and way more romantic, so if you want some guy ejaculating all over your leg like dogs do, then go for it. Trust me then babe, I am way more good in bed than you are. lol

By: Lance

Lance — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 19:45:38 +0000

Please check with your doctor before destroying your ability to be trusted. Before just trying viagra, insist on getting your testosterone level checked. Luckily I have found a doctor with a higher I.Q. than mine and the unusual ability to listen to my reasoning. My testosterone level was low so I manned up and learned that sticking a needle deep into a muscle is a way to show your commitment to fix things with the wife. There are other options but the hypodermic solution is about 7000 times cheaper. The patch is $100 copay each month. The injection is $10 for 30 weeks plus $4 for the syringes. And it is a cool fear to overcome. If afraid to say E.D., tell your doctor about your new found friend Ed. I thought of this before going in and got a good laugh after a weird look.

By: agata

agata — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 17:10:25 +0000

Ok. I know several people who use Ashley Madison (and my partner and I probably would if we were married, but we are not, so the Ashley Madison people would reject us.) But here's the thing: if you have an open relationship that isn't a sketchy swingers type thing, it can be really hard to find partners, because the wedding ring puts them off. Having a dating site where people aren't bothered about the ring is not a bad thing. www.edenfantasys.com/

By: Jen

Jen — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 12:23:42 +0000

I can't say that I am speaking from experience, well not as of yet. I have a similar situation that's been on going since April. Where I park off campus I was approached by a very nice looking older man, (I'm a returning student so you don't think of him as a pervert he's only 12 years older) I didn't know he was married the first few times he hit on me. At first I must admit it found it somewhat of a joke which was the main reason I kept returning, I rather enjoyed watching him fall all over himself.

The question that reminded me of him the most was:
("Ever find yourself fantasizing about hot, passionate, steamy sex with a complete stranger?")
because in September he did just that, offered himself…. and then subsequently took it back. I being the curious female that I am I decided to play his game and made a counter offer, I just simply told him to let me know if he changes his mind, boy that sure got his attention. The next time I saw him he apologized using the excuse of getting too carried away. The next time I saw him I just ignored him which went on for two months and slowly he started to try and regain my attention which only took a little over a week. Nothing physical has taken place other then his occasional need too rub my arm. I'm not sure what I find so intriguing about him that keeps me coming back, I have no plans on stopping anytime soon.