Is Your Man On WomanSavers?
WomanSavers.com is known as "World's Largest (and oldest) Database Rating Good & Bad Men" specifically targeting abusive and cheating men.
The site receives over 1.5 million hits per month and is in the top 5% most popular women's websites in the world.
That is pretty darned impressive so I had to check it out!
Who knows? Maybe someone I've met is on there…
WomanSavers is a platform that lets women warn other women about potentially dangerous men before it's too late. If you have been the victim of an abusive or cheating partner, you can post your ex's photo and your comments to serve as a warning to other women who may date him.
Due to the controversial nature of the site, it has received massive media attention since it's inception in 2003. It's been featured on FOX, CNN, MSNBC, CBS, ABC, Wall Street Journal, NY Times, Chicago Tribune, Esquire Magazine, Sirius Satellite and oodles of daytime talk shows and radio shows.
The fact that women can post anonymously does get men's hackles up. There is of course concern that some women may seek revenge by posting fictitious or potentially damaging information about their ex partners. WomanSavers deletes IP addresses giving men little recourse should they find themselves in the "hall of shame". However, men are free to post their side of the story too.
Since angry women do tend to get a little overemotional, I spent a couple of hours reading men's profiles to see just how much damage had been done. Surprisingly, I did not find any that were really "out of line" and none of them provided any personal identifying information.
It is free for women to post a profile, but there are rules to abide by:
It is also interesting to note and perhaps a deterrent to posting false information, that it costs $10.00 to edit a post and $25.00 to delete it. So, girls, it is in your best interest be truthful and accurate the first time!
WomanSavers isn't just a place to blow off steam about your ex, it is a useful resource for women attempting to "pick up the pieces". There are tons of interesting infidelity polls, articles and advice. There is even a large support network of WomanSavers representatives in many locations around the world.
It hosts a huge forum that welcomes both men and women. They can ask questions of each other, offer advice and share their ideas and opinions. What better way to figure out what goes on in a man's mind than to ask a man? I found the men's responses in most cases to be open, honest and helpful.
Stephany Alexander, the CEO/Founder of WomanSavers, is considered a leading online dating and infidelity expert. She works full-time helping women who are victims of abuse and infidelity through her website. I found it surprising yet admirable that all of the proceeds from the site are donated to abused women and children's charities.
A victim of abuse herself, Stephany is also the author of a new self-help book entitled "Sex, Lies and the Internet" which helps women spot the warnings signs and avoid abusive men in the online dating world.
All considered, I would have to say that WomanSavers.com is a useful resource for women recovering from bad relationships. While I didn't find anyone I knew and it is probably unlikely that you will find your potential date on WomanSavers, you know the saying…
"Better safe than sorry."
It can't hurt to "Research B4U Date"!
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