Catch Them, Cheaters, The Signs

Signs Of A Cheating Spouse

When it comes to detecting infidelity in your spouse or partner, intuition is a powerful thing!

If your "spider senses" are telling you that there is something wrong with your relationship – you're probably right.

Anyone who has experienced true emotional intimacy with their partner will certainly notice even subtle changes in them.

Some people "have a feeling" that their spouse is cheating and choose to ignore it. They have seen the signs but, out of fear, they turn a blind eye hoping that they are wrong and that it will just "go away".

Others, based on those feelings, will look for other physical clues to substantiate their suspicions. For them, the need to know, one way or the other, is necessary in order for them to continue in the relationship.

There are people too, who claim that they had no warning, that there were no signs. The affair just came from nowhere when everything seemed to be going so well.

There are always signs!
You may not have heeded the warnings, but the signs were there.

We tend to get very complacent about our relationships. What was once new, romantic and exciting is now very familiar, comfortable and routine. It's like going from silk underwear and black lace teddies to boxers and flannel nighties. More comfortable, more practical and much less preparation time!

Taking your spouse or partner for granted is a fatal mistake!

Did you even notice that your wife had her hair done? Do you know what color shirt your husband is wearing right now? When was the last time you said "I love you"? I'm not talking about the "luv ya" at the end of a phone conversation or on your way out the door. I'm talking about actually touching and looking at your spouse or partner and really saying "I love you"!

You may be too busy. You may be too tired. Life can get hectic and exhausting but somehow, you have to make the time to stay connected!

When you stop talking, touching or even looking at each other, the intimacy is gone. When that happens, your relationship is at serious risk. Your spouse or partner needs to know that they are loved and needed – today!

"Tomorrow is not always another day" Scarlett and emotional "absence does make the heart grow fonder" – of someone else!