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Cougar Dating
14:44 by TMongtomery · 2 Comments
Cougar dating – “mature women cheating on their husbands with gorgeous, younger men” What a great idea!
Over the course of the last few years, the term “Cougar” has become widely used to define a mature, usually 40-something woman, that seeks casual encounters with much younger men.
I’ve read and seen stories about groups of these women that go for nights out, stalking younger men in restaurants and clubs and having their way with them. And of course there’s now the hit TV show “The Cougar” in which a very attractive mature woman has her pick of much younger men for a boyfriend.
Interestingly enough, I really hadn’t encountered or realized that there was such a thing until I entered married dating 3 years ago. That seems to have been my pivotal point for many things.
During the time that I was on the dating websites I was 47, and quickly had a 28 year old that was hot on my heels…I was chagrined to say the least, and couldn’t figure what in the hell he wanted with me!
I pointed out that I was married, yep, so was he, I pointed out my age (in case he hadn’t noticed…)…he didn’t care about that, and in fact said that he preferred “mature women”…”I have two kids”, I say, “not much younger than you”….”so”? He says….I can’t shake him. The only plus in this that I see is that he lives all the way across the country, I know that I’ll never see or meet him!
We exchange pics, and he is young….28, an attractive professional making headway in his career. He’s been married for 6 years, no children, and has found that his marriage has become tedious…he wants a distraction.
I find that he’s there in chat waiting for me each time I show up….he’s not going anywhere. So one night while we are in chat I start a dialog with him more out of curiosity than anything else. I wanted to know the “why” behind his interest.
I found the conversation very enlightening, as did he, he didn’t even realize fully the reasons behind his attraction to older women until he had to think about them!
I’ve had many subsequent conversations with him and others that have the same preference over the last few years, I don’t know why I didn’t see it before, but suddenly they seem to be everywhere….or maybe it’s just become more acceptable and therefore more prevalent. They don’t have to hide anymore.
I have a few friends out here as well that are dating younger men and it’s not quite as superficial as the TV shows and articles would have you believe; these are very real, loving relationships that work for them.
The following lists a few of the reasons I’ve been given that a more mature woman is now the choice of so many younger men;
- We are more stable; both emotionally and financially
- No drama
- We say what we mean
- We are past having “hang-ups” about our looks and our bodies, and have embraced what we do have
- We are experienced and offer that both in and out of the bedroom
- We are willing to explore more and are less inhibited
- The pregnancy issue is a moot point in most cases
- We are not perfect, nor are we looking for perfect
- We don’t expect them to take care of us
- We don’t ask for more than they can give
- We have a car, a home, a career, a life
- Our libido is usually stronger than it’s ever been, we rarely say “no”
- They don’t have to compete with men in their own age range….
Out of curiosity I googled “Cougar Dating” while writing this, and wasn’t surprised to find listings for many websites now catering to that niche.
So if you’ve thought about or considered taking on a “Cougar” or if you’re a mature woman and have thought about being one, hopefully I’ve added a few more reasons to explore that possibility!
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