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Cuckolding – Guilt-Free Adultery For Girls!

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Have you ever daydreamed about having one or more friends with benefits to play with, plus the security of a husband or boyfriend waiting for you at home? Imagine being able to do so while knowing your partner will always be happily faithful to you!

If that sounds crazy, think again. Thousands of happily married couples in America have exactly this kind of lifestyle. It’s called “cuckolding,” and it’s becoming increasingly popular. In fact, one site dedicated to the cuckolding phenomenon, CuckoldPlace.com has over 80,000 registered users!

So, what is cuckolding?

Quite simply, in a cuckold relationship a woman’s husband or boyfriend becomes sexually excited when his partner steps out on him. It’s different from swinging, because in general the man has no desire to cheat at all. He just wants his wife or girlfriend to have tons of adventures, and then come home and tell him about them! In some cases, he even wants the woman to leave the phone by the bed so he can hear what’s going on. Other guys like to be hiding in the closet or under the bed while she does the dirty deed.

This is obviously a great situation for a woman who wants to have some extramarital fun while keeping the security of her primary relationship. But, you may be wondering, what’s in it for the guy? After all, aren’t men supposed to not want us to cheat?

Well, there are several reasons why a lot of men get excited over the idea of being a cuckold:

1. Lots of men are into the idea of conquest. But, once they are married they miss the thrill of the chase. Knowing you are sometimes in another man’s arms makes them feel like they need to “reclaim” you, which can put the spice back in your marriage.

2. Some scientific studies suggest that when a woman is cheating or has multiple partners, she gives off different pheromones than when she is in a committed relationship. These pheromones are designed to rev up her partner’s libido. It doesn’t matter if you are using birth control; he’s evolutionarily hard wired to want to become part of a natural “sperm competition.”

3. Many men are naturally submissive. For them, mild forms of humiliation are an aphrodisiac. The fantasy element for them is wondering if you may prefer your lovers.

4. Other men become excited because it validates their wives or girlfriends as desirable sexual creatures. And, what could be better for a man’s ego than his partner demonstrating that she can be with someone else, but still choosing to stay with him?

5. Then there are the guys for whom it’s like having their own personal pornography. They want to watch from the closet, or hear you on the phone. Think about it – he may make love to you all the time, but when does he ever get to see you make love?

6. Finally, there are the men who enjoy it because they feel it brings them closer to their partners. Guys aren’t dumb. They know that just like them, you have your own sexual fantasies and desires. But, they also know that many women won’t tell their partner about the hot pool boy or new personal trainer because they are worried he will get jealous. Bringing your lustful desires out into the open – and even acting on them – can bring a new level of intimacy and openness to your relationship. By hearing about your amorous adventures, he’ll discover new ways to please you.

The question you may be asking yourself now is, “How can I find out if my partner would be willing to offer me my sexual freedom while remaining faithful to me?”

Don’t worry, that’s a question we’ll be talking about soon! After all, it’s all part of Our Cheating Ways!


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    8 Responses to “Cuckolding – Guilt-Free Adultery For Girls!”
    1. Jane says:

      While I’ve never called it cockolding, a lot of this describes my relationship with my man. I *totally* see the sperm competition bit, since my man is always in the mood if he knows I’ve been with someone else. He doesn’t want to know the details or be humiliated by it, but he sure does like reclaiming me!

    2. Dave says:

      I browse swinging sites hunting for suitable guys to fuck my wife and when I have a shortlist I show it to her for approval. She reads the ads, and then asks me to make contact with the one that appeals most. I then make all of the arrangements including booking the hotel room and driving her there – I meet the guy and watch whilst he fucks her. Such an arrangement provides an extreme level of excitement for us both – I see her at most feminine when being taken hard by a strong man with a large cock, and make love to her after he has left. However, if I found out she was seeing someone secretly I would be upset to the point of discussing separation. I suppose that I would object to being decieved more than I would worry about her having another man between her legs. Trust means a lot, so for us, cuckolding is a perfect arrangement.

    3. KIM says:

      After two many relationships to count, one marriage that lasted for 9 yrs, and four kids, I have finally found the man I know I will spend the rest of my life with.. yes… it is a cuckold relationship. I have many “lovers” but only one man that I love…what we share cannot be measured. I can finally say I know who the love of my life is and there is no ceiling to how we \ feel for one another…it’s intensity grows every day. When we make love it lasts for hours…and it happens far more than once a week…even with my busy schedule!

    4. KIM says:

      (Edited version) After too many relationships to count, one marriage that lasted for 9 yrs, and four kids, I have finally found the man I know I will spend the rest of my life with.. yes… it is a cuckold relationship. I have many “lovers” but only one man that I love…what we share cannot be measured. I can finally say I know who the love of my life is and there is no ceiling to how we feel for one another…it’s intensity that grows every day. I have always found jealous men to be such an annoying turn off, a weakness that I could never understand. Now when we make love with my man it lasts for hours…and it happens far more than once a week…even with my busy schedule!

    5. aslut says:

      I cuckolded all 3 husbands. One that i finallly left, hated it then loved it. He knew the mne would pay me and gift me. To this day i am not sure who my oldest son’s father is.
      I have affiars with friends husbands now. It suits me. They lube my car i lube their cock. The last spouse got so hot and horny with my escapades. I just thoroughly enjoy the thrust if a fresh cock bareback thrusting deep inot my womb. the thrill of almost getting pregnant. and of new cum. or what each man may try or want… i am getting turned on to being breed maybe soon.

    6. Kevin says:

      I have been dropping hints left and right for my wife of 23 yrs to cuck me, she just isnt getting it, Any suggestions? I had a friend in the military that I cheated with and she made me a cuck and now I want my wife to cuck me!!! HELP!!!!
      Kevin

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