Here is a look at the new self-help book entitled Supreme Self Confidence that launched in early November.

The reason that I chose to buy and review this book was because I think the biggest and most damaging side effect to a victim of infidelity is low self esteem.

For me, self doubt, feelings of inadequacy, shyness and insecurity all made it very difficult for me to move on or even attempt to have a relationship with anyone else.

Well this book promises to pave the way to supreme self confidence, so I decided to give it a review.

That's the wonderful thing about the Internet. You can buy, download and read stuff instantly. A luxury that was not available during my time of crisis! People today have a multitude of help via forums, counseling, self-help books and even dating right at their fingertips!

To start things off on a positive note, the book costs $29.95 but, you have 7 days to read it before you have to pay for it.

Cool. You enter you PayPal information as usual, but, your account is not charged until the seventh day. You can literally read the book and cancel the billing anytime prior to the seventh day.

My first thought?

Slade Shaw, the author, must be pretty darn sure his book is worth the price or he would not put himself in a position where people could read it and still cancel the billing. Seems like an open invitation for unscrupulous people to reap the benefits without paying. Perhaps he will change his mind on that issue later!

Okay…about the book…

To be honest, I found it to be a damned good read from start to finish!

Supreme Self Confidence addresses the four biggest areas of life, personal, social, professional and sexual. It is well researched and extremely well written. It is full of sound advice, action steps and case studies to prove to you that you are wasting your life in the shadows by succumbing to low self esteem and lack of confidence.

While all four areas are important in life, the advice regarding personal and social confidence is of the utmost importance to anyone who has been affected by an affair.

When your spouse leaves you for someone else, you mind becomes flooded with worries, questions, and self doubt. You feel helpless and often powerless to make the right decisions. You second guess everything. You don't trust yourself, much less anyone else. It can be quite paralyzing.

Slade's book is not one of those "believe in yourself" or "love the skin your in" books. He recognizes the fact that you simply cannot make yourself believe something you don't.

You can't look in a mirror and convince yourself that you are beautiful if you don't truly believe that you are. Likewise, you can't just all of a sudden be filled with confidence.

It's not something that you can't talk yourself into. It just doesn't work that way.

But…you can change if you know where to begin!

Supreme Self Confidence will teach you how to control your life instead of letting your life control you.

You will learn how to conquer needless worrying and self doubt. You will come to understand that your thoughts have no power to predict the future. Negative thoughts about yourself and your past situations have no basis in the present. They only provide an excuse to keep you from trying something new. They prevent you from stepping "out there" and taking a chance on a new life.

You will learn that you are your own worst enemy and how you can change that!

The book is 184 pages, I could go on for ever. There's no way I can possibly cover it here and do it justice.

In my opinion, the book rock solid. I honestly could not find argument with any of the proof provided through case studies, nor could I disagree with his methods of solution.

I actually found that I already use some of his techniques for becoming more confident in the dating world but I picked up a few pointers too! My copy is full of highlighted text and notes!

My words of warning…

Nothing in this book will do you one bit of good if you are not ready!

If you are not willing to evaluate and accept the past as a learning experience and get on with life, nothing anyone tells you will help you - period!

If on the other hand, you are ready to "get on with it" and join the land of the living…

Slade's book, Supreme Self Confidence will definitely help you get where you want to go!

Just so that you know…I did not cancel the billing before the seventh day.

I thought that the book was well worth the money!

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