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Happy Mistress Day?
00:10 by cenglish · 7 Comments
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Leave it to the Ashley Madison Agency to come up with some garish advertising to commemorate “Mistress Day” while promoting their “discreet” dating site for married cheaters!
That’s the “PG” version. Their “R” rated ad leaves nothing to the imagination – “Because your wife won’t!” 
I have written articles in the past about the stresses and dangers of Valentine’s Day for cheaters.
In Nightmare On Valentine’s Day! I discussed the particular hazzards of having Valentine’s Day fall on a weekend. With the “work” alibi out the window, it’s much harder to meet up with your mistress, but, check out the article for a few creative tips. Anything is possible if you are determined!
For all of you cheating husbands… Your Cheating Valentine’s Day Heart will make you aware of the careless mistakes that you must avoid if you want to keep peace (or a piece) happy on this day for lovers!
Although there is no Hallmark card for the occassion (yet), February 13th is unofficially known as “Mistress Day” – the day specifically designated for cheating husbands. Isn’t that great? Because mistresses can be insecure (I wonder why?) and must never be made to feel likethey are “second-fiddle” (Duh!), it is important to honor them on the day before Valentine’s Day rather than the day after, so that they don’t feel like an afterthought.
Attention All Mistresses: There is a reason for your insecurities – you are the woman that your husband won’t leave his wife for!
Still, all digs aside, “Mistress Day” falls on a Saturday guys, so you are going to have to explain your absence somehow. You would be wise to read both of the articles mentioned above to avoid any slip ups!
As for all of you jilted wives out there…if your husband announces that he is planning on playing with his putter or practicing his stroke (sorry Tiger!) on his favorite golf course – go with it. Sure, you know he will be using his drive-her, playing in the rough and trying for a “hole in one” (sorry again Tiger!) but…
Isn’t this the perfect time for you to go shopping for that new comfort-her? 
Yup! I say…”Happy Mistress Day Everyone!”
Have fun! 
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Mistress day! Oh how wonderful! the greedy men paying homage to the desperate women trying to keep a man (even if it’s not theirs to begin with!)
These men will not change, the women that believe they will are the losers in all of this. Think about it the man has, say a wife, partner or girlfriend already (so the “emotional” needs are met) but they may feel dissatisfied with say the sex or type of sex they receive from the women they pretend to “love”. The way in which this type of man deals with this issue, is at the level of the unevolved (intellectually and emotionally) rather then speak to the person they proclaim to love, explaining their needs or maybe god forbid using videos or such like to spice things up. They just opt for the easy, selfish option which is screw not with one women’s head and heart but screw two maybe even three!
The mistress very often will claim they don’t want anything more than a fling anyway (but as a women and no prude) I find it hard to think a women who wants to be recognised on this so called “mistress day” want no more than an occassional banging (to put it bluntly). The mistress is well aware that they have caught the attention of a man who is supposed to be in love with someone else, so they believe they have something on the wife. They feel that they must be more attractive or fun or easy to talk too, this is very often not the case the man will say that it is ie “my wife doesn’t understand me like you do” or “you give me the best sex I have ever had” unfortunately the mistress will fall for it, hook, line and sinker. You see the most basic fact is we as humans are mostly creatures of habit, this type of man who is not only duping the person they “care about” but will also dupe the mistress, playing one off against the other. The man wants the emotional void in his life filled by the wife, the basic lust side filled by just that, the hole that he uses to fill his lust void (the mistress).
I find it very sad that these mistresses seem to think that they have such wonderful abilities or beauty that they have turned the head of a married or taken man. The truth is unfortunatley these men don’t need much turning, it’s not the person who turned them it’s the fact your willing to be slopey seconds! if that was not the case there would be no mistress day, he would grow a pair and be man enough to end one relationship before starting another.
OMG!!!!!! You have got to be kidding!!!!! Sometimes being a woman is so fucking embarrassing! If my husband wanted to cheat..he knows he could..kind of takes the game out of it..doesn’t it… makes him wonder what I might be doing…
Omg! you have got to be kidding! Sometimes being a woman is sooo embarrassing! If my husband wants to cheat he knows he can…kind of takes the game out of it doesn’t it? If I have to be his “keeper” to keep him…huh no thank you….we can move right along to the next faze…but I’m pretty secure with my sexuality, I work hard keep the years OFF and the weight….sorry ladies.. the law of attraction doesn’t just apply to the rock on your left hand.
Girls….stop bitching…even though we are raised to bitch and not put out and have your own affair!!!
Oh.. btw no one owns anyone…. there is no “MY”. What is that saying.. if you love something, let it go, if it comes back to you…well it’s still not yours…it loves you back.
I find this absolutely fascinating. I looked back on an old comment, as I had forgotten what I had written. Low and behold it appears we have someone, either not completing what they want to say in one coherent post or talking to themselves? or making some bizarre attempt at an insult? I would love it if they could clarify!!
I would like to point out, I am not some bitter lady who has a vendetta on mistresses, certainly not. In fact it is “their” business if they want to pursue this type of man. I am just making it perfectly clear (only in my opinion), some of the psychological reasons that these men and women do this.
Normally though the mistress just wants to be with someone, as most of us do in human nature. Now I have not actually mentioned that anyone owns anyone, it’s just that the whole point of wedding vows is to be true to the person your with. This does not mean true until someone better comes along and you have that person as well. I would also like to point out, that I have made no attempt at describing what the reactions would be or the type of wife/girlfriend this hypothetical person would have.
I am talking strictly from a Psychological interest. I have no interest in the inconsistent reactions from the posts above, if they do not fully understand my opinions or beliefs in the first place.
I would also like to point out that the law of attraction is another version of “New Thought movement” brought about in the 1900s, it is basically another more modern twist on the older views on positive reinforcement. The law of attraction is not real, in the fact that we do not have that much control over the universe (which is what this theory is basically saying). We do not have the power to will something and make it happen, we would have far more millionaires and many less starving people in the world, if that was the case.
Now, I am not here to argue but I am allowed to disagree, that is what makes discussion fascinating,
So for the sake of good will, I wish you happiness (but I can’t make it happen!) and I enjoyed this topic.
What I am amazed about is that when the husband gets caught cheating the wife, proud as a peacock, flares her feathers and professes….”You stupid bitch, he doesn’t love you, he used you for sex.” How is it so many wives never look at the cheating husband but instead throw daggers at the mistress? OMG, if they didn’t have husbands who were willing to cheat these women wouldn’t have anyone to cheat with, yet they take pride in the fact that their husbands used another woman for his own self-satisfaction. Don’t get me wrong, the women who have affairs are wrong too, but as we all know most often women fall with their heart and don’t really intend to hurt anyone. Not an excuse and they are just as bad but I’m floored over women who defend their slimy scum husbands and then want to be the best thing since sliced bread for that scum after he got caught.