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Is Your Man A Cuckold? Can You Play And Stray?
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Last week we talked about the cuckold lifestyle – where your man not only allows you to step out on him, but actually gets off on it. Obviously this has wonderful advantages for a girl who is tired of routine “married sex” but doesn’t want to put the security of her relationship at risk.
The problem is, how do you find out if this lifestyle is something your husband or boyfriend would be into? Society tells men that they are not supposed to want their partners to stray, and he may be worried that you’ll think he’s a pervert if he brings it up.
What’s a girl to do? Don’t worry ladies, as the cuckold phenomenon has become more and more popular, we’ve learned from our friends – and from personal sexperience – how to bring out the cuckold desires in your man.
• Start out with some light role-play. One night tell him you want him to imagine he’s doing Britney Spears or Cindy Crawford while he makes love to you. The next night tell him that you are going to be thinking of your fantasy man while you make love. As things build up see how he reacts when you moan the other guy’s name in bed. If he suddenly erupts you’ll know he has some latent cuckold tendencies.
• Use the power of porn. Most guys are more than happy to look at porn with their partner, mostly because they think that if they look at porn with you they’ll get lucky that night. So, find some cuckolding porn sites. Don’t bookmark them, but do remember the names. When he comes home have one of the sites up and show it to him. Read some of the stories and captions together and then have some wild sex. Pretend like you have no idea why it turned you on so much. Wait a few days and check your browser’s history. If you notice that he’s been back to the site, you are well on your way.
• Suggest a “trial run.” Mention how role playing in bed and looking at the cuckold porn has been great for your sex life. Tell him you feel sexier than ever. Then plan out a little role-play scenario. Tell him you want to pretend to be stepping out in a safe way. A great way to do this is for you to plan to go to a bar about a half our or 45 minutes before he arrives. Let him know that until he gets there you’ll be flirting with other men. Of course, he then gets to come and take you home – and reclaim you. If he wants to seriously ravage you that means he was getting off on the idea that you could have gone home with any of those other men.
• Take it to the next level. If you’ve gotten this far, then he has some definite cuckold tendencies that you can harness. Tell him you’d be interested in putting up a personal ad on Ashley Madison or Alt.com “just for fun.” Then see who responds and share the responses with your man. You can even have him help you write your replies. It will feel safe because it’s just online and you can tell him that you don’t really have to meet them. Reward him with great sex after he helps you flirt with several of the guys.
• Finally, make it happen. By this point you may have a little lust crush on one of the guys you’ve been talking to online. Wear something sexy and get in bed with your man. Start making out and use your hand to stimulate him, so you can keep in control. Tell him you’ve been fantasizing about one of the guys you’ve been talking to. Keep stroking him and ask him if it would be OK if you went on “one little date” with him. Tell him you love him and want to do this to spice up your relationship. Explain that you’ll give him all the dirty details and let him have his way with you when you get home. If you are lucky he’ll explode in your hand and you’ll have your own license to thrills!
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I would also suggest a more direct approach for women who think their man can handle it. Maybe not starting with, “Hey, would it turn you on if I cheated on you?”
But a simple, “Does the idea of watching me with another guy turn you on?”
I mean, this kind of relationship is going to require a high degree of open communication, so why not start there?
The cuckold lifestyle doesnt have to be just for women bored of married sex, it’s another fun kink to add to good sex. Just trying to take any negatives out-sometimes its fun to make something great-greater!
Good point!
You’re all sick. Fuck it, I’m converting to Islam.
Most men will get turned on by it who are older than 30. It is a fantasy that grows more powerful with age. I also agree with Erica’s comments. This is a way for happy and sexually active people to just have more fun not those unhappy with their sex life. This is for strong and secure couples only. Don’t kid yourself!
Lastly I think you will all be surprised how many men are into this. They just would never admit to it. If you bring it up I think you will be happy with the result and so will he.
It’s wonderful to know there are women out there looking for this kind of lifestyle and thinking about ways to convince their men; it’s usually guys who get frustrated because their wife isn’t interested! The desire to see one’s wife with another man, usually a strong well-endowed man, is a very common fantasy for many men. So ladies, if the thought of being allowed to experience another man appeals, my advice to you is to go for it. The advice given on this page is good, but depending on your man you might want to go straight for erotic talk in the bed and see what happens. Took me 5 years to convince my wife, and now she loves knowing that she can experience a new guy whenever the desire is there. It hasn’t damaged our marriage in the slightest, just made us realise how much we do love each other.
Unfortunately this can appear to be just a little fun between two consenting adults. The reality of it rarely lives up to the fantasy. As a male well over 30 and with a healthy sex drive the idea of sharing my wife would be painful. I would ask why bother being married at all if this is the type of relationship your seek. Just hire a Professional and get your kicks from that instead of playing with peoples lives. Yes.. man love to make thier women happy. Some me are foolish enough to think this will benifit them. A women has to respect her man to love him in the long term. Cuckoldry by it’s very nature is disrespectful: imposed or encouraged. I for one do not share well. I treat my wife as the queen she is and she treats me like the king I am in our relationship. The first time I suspected I was being manipulated as in cuckold training , Femal Led-relationship, ect it woud stop right there. Dead. If she wished to continue I would divorce her. Game over! I guess I m not a submisive
strange but it happens and works and my take on it is that this has been going on forever. the truth is that women can have multiple partners easier than men and women can enjoy group sex more than most men. i am not sure why men enjoy cuckolding but maybe it takes the pressure off to be jealous
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I am surprised that women are into this. I am, and I think a lot of other men are; but the above probably isn’t the greatest advice. It would be hard to convince any man who is not already interested in the lifestyle to take an interest. Your odds are better if you initially find a partner who you know likes it. There are websites for this. Check out hotwifedating.com. There are tuns of single men looking for women who are into this. It seems like a shame to convince one more man to tolerate it if he is not already interested.
I find it very exciting that my wonderful wife make me a cuckol.
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When a man thinks his girl is cheating on him he is going to ravage her. Not because he enjoys it, but because that’s a normal animal reaction by man’s competitive nature.
About 12 years ago while having a great evening out withy wife of 7 years at that time, We were having a few drinks and my wife every so often would point out these absolutely knock out women and make adoring comments about their features and or how sexy they were dressed. I was loving it when I was thinking maybe she wants to have a lesbian encounter or something. My wife then and now is a strikingly beautiful women at 5 feet 3 inches and 120LBS with dark hair and emerald green eyes which she gets complimented on constantly. That evening when we were in bed, I asked her if she was pointing out all those women because she might be interested in a female relationship? She said “No! I just thought you’d enjoy seeing the babes!” “However, There were a couple of hot guys there I enjoyed!” I said “Oh? You didn’t tell me that!” “Well I didn’t want to upset you.” “I See, Well it would have been ok, it’s just fantasy.” Then she said to me, “Tell the truth now, Have you ever fantasized about me having sex with another guy?” I thought a moment and responded, “I did once or twice while masturbating.” “Why?” “Because, I think it would be hot for us to experience.” I said nothing as she started to stroke me and when I was getting hot she became more and more graphic. She said, “Just imagine Some stranger that is so well endowed making out with me and plunging his enormous tool in and out of me while you watch and get off on it as an experiment!” “Squeezing and sucking my breasts and I go down on him while you watch and get off on it!” Again, I said nothing however, I even noticed that the hardness of my penis felt twice as hard and I know she noticed as well when she commented whispering now ” Oooow baby, you like that idea don’t you baby? You want to see me get fu@ked by a really big co@k don’t you baby?” I”I can feel your dripping now just thinking about it aren’t you baby?” “Mmmm this will only enhance our sex lives and I will always love you only and imagine the intense excitement we will share baby!” ” Mmmm Feel how wt I am thinking about it too.” I reached down and she was soaked!
Just then I had an earth shattering orgasm and she whispered “Yes baby, cum for me. Think about it baby.” The next morning I woke up at the usual work time and headed out all the day flashing on what had taken place last night. Around 2:00Pm that afternoon she called me and was talking about some bills and the such and then asked me if I enjoyed our little talk. I told her it was hot and it was fun to imagine her in that situation all the while assuming it was mere fantasy when she said “Baby, I want to try it soon!” I said “Really? For real?” She came back with “Yeah just once to see if it is just as hot as we thought. Come on baby, it will be fun!” I told her we needed to talk more about it. We did! Almost every night and she would grab a hold of my penis in bed and tell me scenario after scenario while she pumped me dry in seconds of her stories! It was The 4th of July weekend and we were invited to her best friends place Tracy’s for a BBQ with about 20 others. While there I saw a guy who looked like a black model from GQ magazine and later was introduced by Tracy’s husband who I golfed with once in a while telling me he was a doctor that just started a practice nearby. We shook hands and I set out for a drink. After the party we went home with the both of us feeling pretty smashed. It was about 9:00PM. My wife went upstairs to wash up and change. She was acting a little strange in that she was sort of quiet and disengaged with me when there was a knock at the door. My wife yelled down to answer it. I did and it was the sexy doctor! I said hi and asked what was up. He said he was invited by Heather (my wife) to stop by after the party. Just then Heather comes downstairs and was dressed unbelievably sexy in a sheer nightie and high heels with her makeup redone. I was still reeling a bit over this when she approached the doctor and french kissed him! I became a little sick to my stomach and asked her if she knew him? She said she had met him before once and then tonight and I told him about our fantasy! She grabbed my hand and walked me into the kitchen and looked me into the eyes and point blank said ” Baby, this is going to happen no matter what and I would really love it if you just sit back and relax and enjoy yourself!” I”If you have any ideas of making a scene then we will go elsewhere!” I looked at her in almost agony and said “Heather, what are you doing?” She said “Baby, I need this and I will have this and I arranged this and you might as well adjust to this! Understand?” I said No! I don’t think so!” She yelled over to the Doc and asked him to make a drink and we would be right there. She sat me down and looked me into the eyes and said “Look, I love only you! Ok? I’m not leaving you for someone else! But if you don’t just relax and try and adjust then a divorce may be our only resort!” “I was stunned and with that she said “Now be a good boy and get undressed and sit down in the living room and just be quiet OK? I’m serious baby! I stayed in the kitchen and I could hear them kissing and I was sick! But I was hard as a rock! After about fifteen minutes she came back in the kitchen and she saw my erection and smiled and rubbed it and said “Good! I love it and so will you! We’re going upstairs to our bed and I want you there naked and watching understand?” Listen your being cuckolded and you might as well enjoy this instead of making what is going to be our reality a bad divorce!” Now Go!” I was dazed as I went upstairs and removed all my clothes still in somewhat of a stupor from the party and sat down at my wife’s vanity. When they came in she smiled at me and gave me a hot kiss and handed me a pair of soft sheer panties and said “Put these on now.” I said “No!” “She said “Yes!” with this sort of excited look in her eyes and when I did she rubbed me through the slippery material and got me so hard! She said “Now slowly rub yourself and watch!” They began kissing as he felt her beautiful 36D breasts and began to remove her clothes. It lasted about an hour! I watched him have sex with her and heard her moan and scream like I have never before! I am pretty ample in size but the Doc was enormous! I am serious! He was at least 10 inches! All the time I thought that was all just made up crap about men being that large! When I came I was exhausted from the stress and he left shortly there after. My wife asked me if I got off on it as she could plainly see I did! She took me by the hand and when we were in bed I could feel the wetness from their juices under me and we laid down together as she took my hand and placed it on her Pu$$y and it was soaked! She pushed my hand tight against her pu$$y and then brought my hand to my mouth and said “Open up baby and taste.” I turned away in silence! She said “Hon don’t make this into a terrible thing and just know this will happen again and it will be your place to clean me afterward orally!” I said “Yeah? Like a hell!” She rolled over and I moved to the couch. Regardless to say, that she had changed much of our financial accounts to another bank in her name and I found out that she had a co signer for a loan to pay off the house and she then sold it to the co signer without my knowledge being she owned half and she signed the loan first because she had the down payment! I am now feminized and live at home full time working at home from my computer. I have breasts and I am quite passable as a woman and I wear sexy clothes around the home and even help servicing her bulls as well as taking care of all the household duties! It’s been twelve years now and I love my role as her wife! She has made arrangements for me to have feminine facial surgery and I have accepted the fact that I will be castrated but penis intact! There was so much more to tell how all this went down but It’s far too long! The co signer and owner of the house was her friend Tracy and now the house is in my wife’s name! I am very happy as Erica now!
That was pretty good advice until you got to the last paragraph. If the woman just goes out with another guy and has sex with him, she is just having an affair. Its one thing to share your wife with another man if you are there, but when they start going out with other guys without their husband, its divorce time!
Hi…well, I find it interesting that “Erica” is a man!! Lol!! I think the situation is always the opposite of this…men have to convince their wives to stray (men into cuckolding that is!!). Actually I have offered my partner this option and she does not want it!! Bummer, because it would definitely add to our sex life!!
the best part of being a cukold is the fact i get to fuck my wifes hotter sister without her knowing it.
Those filthy fuckers of Islam have the Koran in one hand and their dicks in the other. What difference does it make!
This bullshit is natural male response to submission and capture. Your sexual organs prepare to fight. Men seek your true dominance over women do not be held back by this utter dogshit. If your wife cheats then leave her and fuck her mom/friends/sister and kick the fuck out of the other guy. Or read david shades stuff and you’ll be the one who cheats.
Boys an insecure, jealous man has always been a HUGE turn off for me…sadly, I learned that you don”t have to be cheating for a man to be jealous! When a handsome, powerful, successful man came along that I quickly fell in love with and introduced me to the cuckold lifestyle…OMG! No more drama..at least not fighting drama…just intense, out of this world hours of lovemaking, that unfortunately most of you who are are not secure with your own cocks..will ever understand. Sorry : )
It’s only natural. Men were put on this earth to dominate women, but women have the greatest power because they get to choose who they want to dominate them. And that’s a choice that can continue to change and it drives us nuts. In a good way.
@Scott, I applaud u!!! Your wife is a very lucky woman
my ex wanted me to cuckold him, I think it is the real reason for him dumping me. It put a lot of strain in our relationship when he told me about this fantasy of his.. I knew that I could never fulfill this since it is against my morals and wayyy out of my comfort zone, though I did stay with him because loved him so much. He would always tk about it in bed and I felt very pressured and also doubted his feeling for me. Call me old fashioned buT I think when u love someone u should never want to share them EVER. He’s 33 and I am 24 so maybe he has been in this lifestyle for a while now, I didn’t wanna ask, it disgusted me too much. At first I was devasted but then realized that it was a blessing in desguise 
Well put, Scott and Anonymous.
I have heard of women in open relationships getting excited watching her husband fuck another woman, but I have yet to hear of one where the wife still only wants to sleep with the husband (which would be required for it to be cuckold in reverse) Are there any out there?
The correct historical term for a man who enjoys his wife having sex with other men is Wittol. The true meaning of Cuckold is a man whose wife takes lovers without his knowledge or against his will. This site, and almost all “cuckold” sites, represent the fantasies and desires of a, mainly male, group who fit the first definition.
I will accept my wife fucking other men…but I will fuck other women.
Cant sell her on this. I need other women IF she had other men,she should gladly accept my having other women in this process. Its only normal and natural.
Scott says:
10/21/2009 at 00:10
Unfortunately this can appear to be just a little fun between two consenting adults. The reality of it rarely lives up to the fantasy. As a male well over 30 and with a healthy sex drive the idea of sharing my wife would be painful. I would ask why bother being married at all if this is the type of relationship your seek. Just hire a Professional and get your kicks from that instead of playing with peoples lives. Yes.. man love to make thier women happy. Some me are foolish enough to think this will benifit them. A women has to respect her man to love him in the long term. Cuckoldry by it’s very nature is disrespectful: imposed or encouraged. I for one do not share well. I treat my wife as the queen she is and she treats me like the king I am in our relationship. The first time I suspected I was being manipulated as in cuckold training , Femal Led-relationship, ect it woud stop right there. Dead. If she wished to continue I would divorce her. Game over! I guess I m not a submisive
Yes, I agree Scott. Divorce them if they do this, or even want to do this, There are too many good women to go for this crap.
my wife watches me fuck other women. it’s a huge turn on for both of us.
after 10 year of this I convinced my wife to try it and she absolutely loves it. She totally gets off having black men whenever she wants and I get to watch (sometimes) but I always get to clean her up when she is done. This has really strengthened our marriage more so than I could ever imagine.
We’ve been together nearly 20yrs, have young kids.
I got my wifeinto this in 2007. She LOVES it. It’s fun for us and I enjoy it all including minor jealous feel ins (they’ve almost gone to zero).
I have to say, it hasn’t had a detrimental effect on our marriage. If anything we’re more open withneach other. I can see how it could screw up some marriages but so far we’ve been lucky. It’s definitely for the more settled, older and more mature couples … Late 30′s onwards would be my advice.
First of all this story sounds total fake. If its real then its for u assholes from me. All of u cuckholds being ashame for u that u r a man. ‘Eric’ hang urself u filthy sissy, useless strash. But before u die do me one favour, skinned ur immoral, low life wife, put gasoline on that bitche’s pussy hole and light fire. Why r u so concern bout that valueless properties when ur real property is ur self respect. No self respect no value of living in this world. I feel pity for u. If u can’t do that for me then give me ur address i’ll perform “the whore’s pussy burning ritual for u”. U r not man enough to survive in this cruel world. Being a man doesn’t need to have a fucking huge dick, but act like a man. How can u forget great mens like Napoleon, Hitler … They don’t have monster cocks u stinking psycopath. After killing ur dirty wife get urself a life if possible. I have perfectly effective remedy for “GOD FORBIDDEN WIFES” like urs and man looking creatures like U.
i am in the same living situation as erica. i was overjoyed to turn the house over to my Wife and it is her responsabilty to keep up the mortgage, taxes and maintanance.. Athough i do supply the financial wherewithal. She gives me an allowance each month to purchase small items for me such as makeup, soap and tothpaste. When i need clothes or lingerieMs Sandra goes with me to make sure i buy the correct size and style. as the the “house keeper” i do nt eed any “High Style” clothing.
i am so happy with my position as “wife” that i find myself singing as i clea
sissylaurie a pathetic pansy