My ex-husband asked me this once when I came home from a little get together at a girlfriend’s house…"so, is there any dew on the lily?" Dew on the lily? In his own colorful way, he was asking me if I had cheated on him!
Why is it that when the passion fades and lust is once again something to fantasize about,a man’s first instinct is to point an accusing finger? "You’re not hitting on me so you must be doing someone else - are you?"
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I don't disapprove of the Swingers
Lifestyle, as a matter of fact, although I have never actively participated, if I were completely honest, I find the idea of swinging to be very appealing.
I have long since given up the notion that monogamy is normal…as a matter of fact, I honestly believe that it is really, quite rare.
Let's face it…how many people do you know in your circle of friends and acquaintances that are monogamous? A few but, my guess is, not that many.
It's not that I don't believe in the love and companionship of a permanent partner, I do. I just do not believe that most people are capable of monogamy. At least I see little evidence of it.
If you listen to "old school" society, cheating is the act of having sex with someone other than your spouse - case closed.
But what about couples who actively seek the company of other like minded people who just enjoy recreational sex and the social aspects of it?
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In a shocking and totally uncharacteristic move, both Kwame Kilpatrick and his ex-loverChief of Staff, Christine Beatty, lied pleaded "not guilty" at their arraignments today. (March 25, 2008)
And rightly so too. After watching this video I can see absolutely no possible way that anyone could ever question the honesty or integrity of either of these fine, hard working public servants!
Christine: So we are officially busted. Kwame: Damn that. Never busted. Busted is what you see! Christine: Damn, so they have to walk in before you conceed (misspelled) busted. Kwame: Hell yeah. Walk in.
See?
It wasn't him, he didn't do it, you didn't see him so you can't prove anything..ahhh…
