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Pay For Play – Going Down With The Economy

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Infidelity doesn’t always have to be about romance. Sometimes it can simply be about going out and getting good sex. Sometimes it’s about making yourself feel beautiful, feminine and desired. And sometimes, it can just be about the money.

As noted on Salon and Jezebel, many middle class women – even ones who are married or in long-term relationships – are becoming escorts. Part of this has to do with the fact that the Internet has made escorting much safer and easier to do. And a big part of it is that the economy is tanking. Lots of women are getting laid off from their jobs, having their hours cut or being forced to take very low paying jobs because finding employment that matches their education and expertise can be nearly impossible.

As one young woman on Jezebel put it: “Something dawned on me: I’d rather be exploited for $200/hr than for $7/hr.”

But being an escort is not only about the money. Many women report other benefits:

  • It’s hard not to feel sexy and wanted when a wealthy man is handing you hundreds or thousands of dollars for a romantic tryst.
  • Being an escort can be sexy in and of itself. Many women have fantasies about being a concubine and there is an erotic rush in taking on such a taboo lifestyle.
  • It can be very glamorous to be a high-end escort. The men are often very interesting, and it’s fun to be pampered in five-star hotels and restaurants before an evening of making love.
  • It’s the ultimate no-strings-attached sex. Neither of you has to worry about getting involved. You can simply revel in carnality.
  • This is one job where you can choose your own hours and work only when you want to.

Many of these women become escorts without their partner’s knowledge. Of course, if the couple isn’t living together this is much, much easier to accomplish. After all, your boyfriend doesn’t have to know exactly how much money you make at your job, so it’s easier to have extra cash around and not have to explain it.

If you are married, it can be more difficult. Some of these women tell their husbands what they are going to do, but make it clear it’s just about sex and money and has nothing to do with their relationship. Others simply tell their husbands they are working for a temp agency. This works, because they can claim the agency sends them to a different office every day – so there is no way for their husband to pop in on them at work!

Of course, unless you live in Nevada, there is a risk of getting busted when you work as an escort. But, you can minimize the risks and enjoy yourself while you bring home the bacon! And, Cheating Ways is going to show you the ropes:

  • Don’t put your picture up on an escort website. Post a text-only ad on Craigslist. Your photo could be your downfall.
  • Make sure you get several photos from the guy before you send him your photo. The last thing you want is to end up sending your picture off to someone you might know in real life.
  • Don’t talk about money in your ad. This is a red flag to the police. Instead, talk about “financial aid” or something else oblique.
  • Many girls say in their ad that they have a fetish for being “treated like an escort.” They do so because this can be a defense if they are ever arrested. The police know this, and are less likely to bother you if you describe it as a fetish rather than an economic situation.
  • Condoms are a must for any escort encounter – including oral sex. No exceptions.
  • Never let the man put the money directly into your hands. Only police or first-time escort users do this. In general, the cash is left on an envelope by the dresser. You are supposed to put it in your purse discreetly when he’s in the bathroom. That way, no money has technically changed hands.
  • Remember, you don’t have to ask for cash. If you are nervous about money, ask that he give you an expensive present with a gift receipt. Then, you can exchange it for cash at the store. Many women do this to not be technically “paid” for sexual favors.
  • When you first get to the hotel room, pretend to call a friend to tell her where you are. You don’t really have to make the call, but you want the guy to think someone knows where you are.
  • Don’t do anything you aren’t comfortable with. You have the right to say no to anything and anyone.
  • Try to have fun – and don’t feel like you are betraying your man if you have an orgasm with a client. Lots of girls do, and there is nothing wrong with enjoying a new man!

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