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Pay For Play – Going Down With The Economy
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Infidelity doesn’t always have to be about romance. Sometimes it can simply be about going out and getting good sex. Sometimes it’s about making yourself feel beautiful, feminine and desired. And sometimes, it can just be about the money.
As noted on Salon and Jezebel, many middle class women – even ones who are married or in long-term relationships – are becoming escorts. Part of this has to do with the fact that the Internet has made escorting much safer and easier to do. And a big part of it is that the economy is tanking. Lots of women are getting laid off from their jobs, having their hours cut or being forced to take very low paying jobs because finding employment that matches their education and expertise can be nearly impossible.
As one young woman on Jezebel put it: “Something dawned on me: I’d rather be exploited for $200/hr than for $7/hr.”
But being an escort is not only about the money. Many women report other benefits:
- It’s hard not to feel sexy and wanted when a wealthy man is handing you hundreds or thousands of dollars for a romantic tryst.
- Being an escort can be sexy in and of itself. Many women have fantasies about being a concubine and there is an erotic rush in taking on such a taboo lifestyle.
- It can be very glamorous to be a high-end escort. The men are often very interesting, and it’s fun to be pampered in five-star hotels and restaurants before an evening of making love.
- It’s the ultimate no-strings-attached sex. Neither of you has to worry about getting involved. You can simply revel in carnality.
- This is one job where you can choose your own hours and work only when you want to.
Many of these women become escorts without their partner’s knowledge. Of course, if the couple isn’t living together this is much, much easier to accomplish. After all, your boyfriend doesn’t have to know exactly how much money you make at your job, so it’s easier to have extra cash around and not have to explain it.
If you are married, it can be more difficult. Some of these women tell their husbands what they are going to do, but make it clear it’s just about sex and money and has nothing to do with their relationship. Others simply tell their husbands they are working for a temp agency. This works, because they can claim the agency sends them to a different office every day – so there is no way for their husband to pop in on them at work!
Of course, unless you live in Nevada, there is a risk of getting busted when you work as an escort. But, you can minimize the risks and enjoy yourself while you bring home the bacon! And, Cheating Ways is going to show you the ropes:
- Don’t put your picture up on an escort website. Post a text-only ad on Craigslist. Your photo could be your downfall.
- Make sure you get several photos from the guy before you send him your photo. The last thing you want is to end up sending your picture off to someone you might know in real life.
- Don’t talk about money in your ad. This is a red flag to the police. Instead, talk about “financial aid” or something else oblique.
- Many girls say in their ad that they have a fetish for being “treated like an escort.” They do so because this can be a defense if they are ever arrested. The police know this, and are less likely to bother you if you describe it as a fetish rather than an economic situation.
- Condoms are a must for any escort encounter – including oral sex. No exceptions.
- Never let the man put the money directly into your hands. Only police or first-time escort users do this. In general, the cash is left on an envelope by the dresser. You are supposed to put it in your purse discreetly when he’s in the bathroom. That way, no money has technically changed hands.
- Remember, you don’t have to ask for cash. If you are nervous about money, ask that he give you an expensive present with a gift receipt. Then, you can exchange it for cash at the store. Many women do this to not be technically “paid” for sexual favors.
- When you first get to the hotel room, pretend to call a friend to tell her where you are. You don’t really have to make the call, but you want the guy to think someone knows where you are.
- Don’t do anything you aren’t comfortable with. You have the right to say no to anything and anyone.
- Try to have fun – and don’t feel like you are betraying your man if you have an orgasm with a client. Lots of girls do, and there is nothing wrong with enjoying a new man!
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“Something dawned on me: I’d rather be exploited for $200/hr than for $7/hr.”
Just don’t assume that these gals bill out for eight hours a day, five days a week like your 9 to 5 day job. It doesn’t work that way… or, if it did, the job would cease to be even remotely pleasurable.
There is also time and money required to market yourself and you’ll need either a place to work or transportation if the client is expected to provide the venue. If you’re going to plaster ads all over the Internet or the local “alternative” weeklies, expect the prices to double just for an “adult” category.
“It’s hard not to feel sexy and wanted when a wealthy man is handing you hundreds or thousands of dollars for a romantic tryst.”
Conversely, it’s not hard to feel unsexy or unwanted when the guys turn out to be no-shows, which is annoyingly common. Maybe he gets cold feet or wifey wouldn’t let him out of the house? *lol* who knows.
There’s also the question of whether he does anything to get you off, or just sees this as a “blow and go” with no reciprocation. There are all kinds out there and your mileage *will* vary between clients.
“It can be very glamorous to be a high-end escort. The men are often very interesting, and it’s fun to be pampered in five-star hotels and restaurants before an evening of making love.”
Conversely, it can be very un-glamorous if you’re doing this just to make ends meet. Many of those who are involved are single mums trying to make ends meet on rent day; they’re not living the life of champagne and limousines (as the agencies would have the client believe) but conversely they’re not living the life of drug dependence (as detractors would have you believe) except for a few at the low end of the market, on the streets (the most dangerous place to be, so avoid it at all costs).
“Many of these women become escorts without their partner’s knowledge.”
I’d expect most would be more concerned that their kids or other family not know where mama got this month’s rent money. Many are divorced and fear this will be used against them in custody battles, even where the ex is deadbeat and not meeting support payments.
“Others simply tell their husbands they are working for a temp agency. This works, because they can claim the agency sends them to a different office every day – so there is no way for their husband to pop in on them at work!”
The hours these gals keep might be a bit unconventional for a temp agency?
“Of course, unless you live in Nevada, there is a risk of getting busted when you work as an escort.”
Nevada? An outcall is just as illegal there as elsewhere stateside, only the rural houses of ill repute (often operated by organised crime) are officially permitted there.
Canada, on the other hand, has no law against an independent outcall escort *per se*. Many related activities (such as communicating for the purpose of prostitution in public view) are illegal, prostitution itself is not. Americans do not have this luxury; US states all criminalise prostitution.
“Don’t put your picture up on an escort website. Post a text-only ad on Craigslist. Your photo could be your downfall.”
…or at least don’t show your face. There does still need to be enough info to pique a prospective client’s interest, even if the intent is crudely disguised as “w4m, seeks a$$i$tance…” it needs to convey just enough info to encourage inquiries.
“Make sure you get several photos from the guy before you send him your photo.”
Good luck with that. You might get a name, you may get a work or ‘cell phone but you will *not* get a home ‘phone or a photo because these boys, for the most part, are cheating without their wives’ knowledge. The object is to find out just enough to know this person is not a cop or a serial killer.
“Try to have fun – and don’t feel like you are betraying your man if you have an orgasm with a client. Lots of girls do, and there is nothing wrong with enjoying a new man!”
Just don’t expect an orgasm with every client… many of them will want to get their own rocks off and disappear just as quickly. Then again, if you get the one in a million who is single, cute and falls in love with you at first sight… see if you can keep him – he might come in handy at times.
Im really considering getting into the business. I have a friend that started as is making fast money. The problem I have is that i’ll be moving to germany in two weeks and i don’t have the slightest idea where to start. I’m 18, soon to be college student and need money for tuition and rent. is there anyone that knows anything about european escorts? Please, please contact me, i’m seriously considering this.
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I am very interested and want to start ASAP. This is something I have wanted to do since i can remember. the money is just to good. I hate the idea of working 9 to 5 at only 7.36 to 10.00 an hour when i can do much better. plus I crave the sex. lol
I have been dating for about a year, i have been blessed to do what i do best. I have a profession that i love and never enough time to go clubbing or meeting new men. But, i have met several millionaires, extremely wealthy men they all seem to come back for more. They take me on trips and pay for everything but i have yet to receive a monetary gift from them, why? don’t know they haven’t bothered to offer me any or at least leave it in my purse with a sexy note.
What they like best is that every time we have sex is like my first time but i am exotic, erotic and passionate and focus only on the moment. I am a classy, sophisticated exotic woman. I am not a supermodel, but i dress very well, clean and sexy. Forgot to mention the fact i am 46, I am a Voluptous woman who knows how to please.I am in the Chicago Area Close to OHARE airport. All my men are under 40 years of age and well the youngest i would have to say is 18… I am available to travel anywhere in the world for some generous male. find me on most adult websites…
I was wondering if someone can give me an example to put myself out there to start my escort service..thank you
Hi! my name is ana and i m very interesting about becoming a escort im not gonna lie i really need the money and i think this is a very good oportunitie for me to get some money and try something different in my life, im 23 years this is my email address i hope i u guys are interesting on me. email address letan88@live.com i will email u guys and send u guys a picture al myselft. thanx.
this just explains why to become and escort but i want to know how can i get a job as an escort here in LA
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I have been intrested in becoming an escort since my 18th birthday. i just recently turned 20 and moved to Houston,TX. I need the money bad. if someone could help me get started it would be a great help. hair: black eyes: hazel race: black white and mexican hight: 5’7” weight: 250 i have lots of pictures. my email is evalisamarie19@yahoo.com thank you.
I am a M2F TG and I need money for transition and surgery. Would this be something I could do?
In this business there are always haters. Take Cali for instance (california_lovee@ymail.com, she is just a jealous lady trying to run a low rent agency and she is working for a black pimped called Diamond Dan. Be careful ladies. She is the bait to lure unsuspecting ladies into Diamond Dan’s controlled stable. Whereas Ladies Extraordinaire has been in business for over 10 years and have worked with over 350 ladies who can all vouch for our authenticity.
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lol who is diamond dan? im actually independent and have been helping a few ladies on here who have responded to my email? i show my knowledge of what i kno so they can learn the biz and venture on their own not tht im necearily an agency. ive just personally heard some negative feedback on a girl who tried to work with u but said u were a scam so im just putting it out there. u cud be totally legit and tht girl cud be wrong just like ur wrong about me but ur just being a said “hater” so yeah ladies pick and choose what they want to do BUT if any ladies wanna hear what i have too say please contact me california_lovee@ymail.com =]
Cali, you know you work for Diamond Dan that nasty black pimp!!! Stop lying!!! I know because when I came in for my interview you and him told me I had to have sex with the both of you in order to qualify. I refused (not because I do not like sex) but because the both of you grossed me out. He smells like sex, whiskey and cigarettes. Disgusting!!!
Cali you should be ashamed of yourself for luring girls into that trap. Piss on you Cali!!!
I’m in FL wanting to get started …love sex….love $$$…any ideas?