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Pay For Play – Going Down With The Economy
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Infidelity doesn’t always have to be about romance. Sometimes it can simply be about going out and getting good sex. Sometimes it’s about making yourself feel beautiful, feminine and desired. And sometimes, it can just be about the money.
As noted on Salon and Jezebel, many middle class women – even ones who are married or in long-term relationships – are becoming escorts. Part of this has to do with the fact that the Internet has made escorting much safer and easier to do. And a big part of it is that the economy is tanking. Lots of women are getting laid off from their jobs, having their hours cut or being forced to take very low paying jobs because finding employment that matches their education and expertise can be nearly impossible.
As one young woman on Jezebel put it: “Something dawned on me: I’d rather be exploited for $200/hr than for $7/hr.”
But being an escort is not only about the money. Many women report other benefits:
- It’s hard not to feel sexy and wanted when a wealthy man is handing you hundreds or thousands of dollars for a romantic tryst.
- Being an escort can be sexy in and of itself. Many women have fantasies about being a concubine and there is an erotic rush in taking on such a taboo lifestyle.
- It can be very glamorous to be a high-end escort. The men are often very interesting, and it’s fun to be pampered in five-star hotels and restaurants before an evening of making love.
- It’s the ultimate no-strings-attached sex. Neither of you has to worry about getting involved. You can simply revel in carnality.
- This is one job where you can choose your own hours and work only when you want to.
Many of these women become escorts without their partner’s knowledge. Of course, if the couple isn’t living together this is much, much easier to accomplish. After all, your boyfriend doesn’t have to know exactly how much money you make at your job, so it’s easier to have extra cash around and not have to explain it.
If you are married, it can be more difficult. Some of these women tell their husbands what they are going to do, but make it clear it’s just about sex and money and has nothing to do with their relationship. Others simply tell their husbands they are working for a temp agency. This works, because they can claim the agency sends them to a different office every day – so there is no way for their husband to pop in on them at work!
Of course, unless you live in Nevada, there is a risk of getting busted when you work as an escort. But, you can minimize the risks and enjoy yourself while you bring home the bacon! And, Cheating Ways is going to show you the ropes:
- Don’t put your picture up on an escort website. Post a text-only ad on Craigslist. Your photo could be your downfall.
- Make sure you get several photos from the guy before you send him your photo. The last thing you want is to end up sending your picture off to someone you might know in real life.
- Don’t talk about money in your ad. This is a red flag to the police. Instead, talk about “financial aid” or something else oblique.
- Many girls say in their ad that they have a fetish for being “treated like an escort.” They do so because this can be a defense if they are ever arrested. The police know this, and are less likely to bother you if you describe it as a fetish rather than an economic situation.
- Condoms are a must for any escort encounter – including oral sex. No exceptions.
- Never let the man put the money directly into your hands. Only police or first-time escort users do this. In general, the cash is left on an envelope by the dresser. You are supposed to put it in your purse discreetly when he’s in the bathroom. That way, no money has technically changed hands.
- Remember, you don’t have to ask for cash. If you are nervous about money, ask that he give you an expensive present with a gift receipt. Then, you can exchange it for cash at the store. Many women do this to not be technically “paid” for sexual favors.
- When you first get to the hotel room, pretend to call a friend to tell her where you are. You don’t really have to make the call, but you want the guy to think someone knows where you are.
- Don’t do anything you aren’t comfortable with. You have the right to say no to anything and anyone.
- Try to have fun – and don’t feel like you are betraying your man if you have an orgasm with a client. Lots of girls do, and there is nothing wrong with enjoying a new man!
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Hi my name Bernadette an i want to be come a paid escort =can you help me get stard thanks you
Hi I would like to become a paid escort
If you want to become a paid escort, but you’ve never done it before, you might try being a sugar baby first. A sugar baby is basically a longer term escorting gig, but with the same person- or at least fewer people. As a paid escort, you may experience some clients who think they are having a pizza delivered. When you are a sugar baby, you get taken on dates and there is an effort made toward romance. You have a bit of time to see if you clique with the guy- and to be sure he is safe and sane.
Of course, you must begin to be sugared immediately, or it’s not really beneficial for you. You don’t need to have sex with him immediately, but he does need to begin courting you with gifts and cash right away. Otherwise, move on to someone who is serious about his role as asugar daddy.
Good luck!
how can i become sugar babby
You should all think long and hard why you want to do this. Unless you really think that low of yourself to sell yourself to someones husband and most off all someones Daddy you must have had a terrible sexual abusive childhood to step down that low in life.
You may think that someone will sleep with them it may as well be me, well if all of you had some respect for yourselves and maybe used your brain to get a job that could do this world some good rather than your crotch to spread more STD and HIV around this world. You are really fooling yourself if you say that you enjoy giving fat, dirty old men a blow job and him slapping you around and then finally screwing you, because that is what it is he is doing is screwing you and eventually all those men will screw up your life. Good Luck with the future. Hopefully someday your daughter will be proud of you if you make it that far.
@Lori
I am nineteen and I really don’t see anything wrong with being a paid escort. I only worry about the danger of getting an abusive and insane client. Im in college, and struggling to stay there. It’s hard to be on my own and pay my tuition, infact it is becoming impossible. I am trying to make a better life for myself later on down the road so obviously “using my brain” isn’t enough. Sometimes and most times, it takes money to make money. I just want to graduate and if I didn’t so many piffs with my body, I would totally become a stripper or an escort. Its actually the exploitation of men, not of women. People have random sex just for pleasure. Why not for money? Because its not socially exceptable?
heii mis lori, we have that knowledge and if your arent personally into this you shouldnt say anything. some people dont have it that easily
like khadija said its more of a necesity
i have looked at some of the sugar daddy websites and they are just regular guys looking for a regular girl to date. which one is the best?
I think we all have something to say to this Lory person.
Anyway Im sorry for her,maybe she had a messed up childhood with a father who spend his money on a payed escorts or maybe a terrible maridge cause she knows her husband cheats on her.
I do think this is the best way for a woman to be free and make good money wemen like Lori do not feed me and the don´t dress me ether I currently live in Chile and I have no light in my house I live with a guy who isn´t at all romantic and im mainly with him cause i have food and someone to sleep with so I dont feel lonely.
Now I finally got the chance to be a payed escort with my best friend so Im doing it and im proud of my self cause i have the personality and the nerve to put up with it.
It´s not easy at first but hey I need the money to help my mom install light and water into a hgouse she lives and help her buy it and I also want to become a vet so I find this oportunity wonderfull, besides why not in the end men are cheaters why not take advantige of it I say ¨If hes not spending money on me hes not going to s`pend it on his kids or wife, hes just going to find some other chick to pay for services¨ right?
I would like to know what steps to take to become a escort.
how do i start i am a gay 19 year old male
i would love to be a piad escort please help me find the job and iam wiling to start immediatly
I am an escort/call girl/ GFE/exotic dancer; I am an adult ENTERTAINER, NOT a pleaser. I DO NOT GET INVOLVED IN ANY FORM OF SEXUAL CONTACT WITH ANY CLIENT; NEVER! Sex is not necessary for this job; a nice personality and a pretty face are more important than anything in this line of business. I will/have not have/had sex with any client, no matter how much he’s willing to pay me. Obviously, I do not make a huge amount of money (as in 1000 bucks per hour; usually between 70-100 per hour plus tips if I’m dancing) , but what I make is more than enough to pay for all my living expenses and have some extra for nice things. I do lots of other things, but no sexual contact (hand jobs, blow jobs, butt play, etc) of any kind. Reason? I don’t think STDs feel good nor I don’t want to risk my future with an unwanted pregnancy. Ah, craigslist no longer has the “adult” section. I am a sex addict struggling with my urges, and this job had saved my life. Since I don’t want to screw my life with a misdemeanor, felony, STD or any of that sort, I abstain myself from the sexual contact in this business, and give my client my company, my knowledge, and my time. However, the whole thrill of doing is is a major turn on on it’s own; that’s why it had helped me on my recovery.
I’m Makayla.. I wouldnt mind doing this, if i had some girls to do it with?
Email me.
kristianmakaylad@gmail.com
Thanks.
I would like to know how to become a paid escort. I too am in college and its getting to the point of me dropping out for not being able to pay.
Hi! I just turned 20 & I work in retail (which is obviously slow because of the economy)
Im looking to become an escort .. I live in Las Vegas & like Makayla said .. It would be great if i had some girls to start with
I know that living in vegas you would think it was easy to join a service but they all want start up money & experience
Does anyone have advice for my situation? Or maybe also live here & looking for a friend to start with?
my email is tesscharm@gmail.com
Thanks!
They don’t have dates on these posts but I posted on Dec 2nd, 2010
Please contact me bout esorting or suga babies
I’ve though about becoming a sugar baby to start and from there become an escort after that. I think they have phenomenal self-confidence and I want to achieve that. But I don’t know how to find a reputable/good agency since they are kept quiet.
Try the Eros Guide!
I would like to be a male escort. I am a male.
Is it possible for a man to be an escort for women only
Would women use a male escort.
Can you please help me?
hey, 20 yr old girl from NJ–I have tryed the sugar baby/daddy websites and it has turn up a lot of men who see my picture and send a message promising the world. But you have to make sure you chat with them over email before meeting them in a public place(never private home first). Lots of the men will say they earn $3-5mill but its a whole lot less, and I prefer cash than dinners to be honest therefore I am becoming interested in escorting, anyone have any tips? wanna try at it together? thanks carlygirlxox@yahoo.com
interested!!!!!!!!!!!
interested!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
interested!!!!!!!!!
justicesharie21@gmail.com
Hello, my name is frank,
I have read all your comments, and from a guys point of view, I respect all your decisions. Im a 24 yr old college student in NY. Its hard to earn good money while being a full time student. While saying this, NY colleges are thinking of raising tuition the following semesters. I met someone in the gym, and told me to become a male escort and to do it for the days im off from school. I told him Im not in shape to become one, but he said you dont need to be bc every woman is different. There are women who love men with love handles, who love fat/skinny guys. Is that true?????? Im thinking about it real hard.
i realy wana became an escort im a 26 years old girl……please help me
I am interesting in becoming a paid escort. I am a BBW and 43. What are thebest steps to accomplish this goal?
I just became a escort and i love it! it brings in extra money and my husband finds it quite sexy what i do. it has brought a new spark to our marriage! it helps pay the bills and i cant see myself doing anything else at the moment. As for Lori, i have no sexual abuse history, i am clean as i use a condom with everyone and everything. i get tested 4 timnes a year so i know im good. this industry has been around for centeries, so you can shove your thoughts up your bum. we cant help it if your some old hag at home that cant please your husband anymore. the only one here that seems to have low confidence and self worth here is you!
This is another classic article by somebody who thinks they know how to be an escort but doesn’t.
More and more women are entering the escort industry, but there’s not enough education on how to do it safely and discreetly or how to reach your goals. I teach women how to be safe and to respect them selves and how to attract respectful high-end clients. I teach how to screen and background-check clients and keep your adult life secret, as well as improve your product to earn more money. Lessons are online or in person. For more info please follow this link
https://sites.google.com/site/modernartlifeconsulting
girls who wanna become escorts hit me up i can help u get started email me @ therealkittenz@yahoo.com
HAVE ALOT OF EXPERIENCE IN THE GAME..WORK WITH PLENTY OF GIRLS BUT READY TO BRING SOME NEW FACES AROUND….WE TRAVEL,PARTY,HAVE FUN,KEEP EACH OTHER COMPANY AND SAFE AND MOST OF ALL MAKE MONEY….YOU CAN MAKE UP 2 500-1200 A DAY!!!
YOU CHOOSE YOUR RATES,YOUR DOS AND DNT AND U GET TO KEEP YOUR MONEY…
READY TO START AVALIABLE EMAIL ME ASAP @ THEREALKITTENZ@YAHOO.COM IF U FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE TALKIN OVER THE PHONE EMAIL ME UR NUMBER AND I WILL CALL YOU ASAP…
Gentlemen and ladies please be aware of con artists, pimps and bad people who do not have your interest. If an offer sounds too good to be true, it most likely is. Go with your instincts. Be safe!
What would an example of a craigslist post look like?
What is the right thing to say so that you dont get in trouble but you also dont get conned or meet up with a loser?
I just need some extra money this 9-5 sint cutting it for me and since i got it im going to use what i got to get what i want. Can someone help get me started?
i want to be an escort help plz imani200867@yahoo.com
I’d love to learn how to become a sugar baby or paid escort. !!!! I mean college is a fcking KILLER and I’m and only child with No parents trying to support myself. Soooo if you have any tips or know any sites email me. with Subject : Kisses or Flowers
aleemahperry@yahoo.com…
muchhh love to you women!
I am a 43 year old Dominatrix.
I am here to give some advice to any girl thinking of getting into escorting.DONT.
I was with a pimp from17 to 27. It was hell. However I am fully trained in the art of escorting. However starting on your own is very dangerous and if you meet someone who says they want to help you stay away. I can promise you your best interests are not going to be in their mind. And if an aggressive female is using the word GAME or brings it up or will not leave you alone. Run fast. They have pimps. Thats what the game means. I was in it for 10 years. It is hell. You will go to jail and be beaten. You will not be able to say where and when you do a client. You will be forced to do clients everyday sick or pregnant or even on your death bed you will be forced to work and not keep 1 penny.He will force you to quit school leave your family and completly isolate you from the world into an underground hell.
I give speeches to schools across the country on this very subject.
If you feel youd like to be an entertainer for financial reason. Become a dominatrix. Check out eros.com and look under the bdsm section in your state or country.You will not perform any thing against the law and you will make big bucks. Do your research. Look on the web for dom sessions so you can understand the lifestyle and possibly find a dungen in your area and see if they are hiring.Even on youtube has sessions you can watch and learn.
NEVER NEVER NEVER have sex for money. Your life and health and self esteem are way too precious.
And remember when you think your all alon in this world…… I love you
God Bless
Hey everyone, I’m currently an’ exotic dancer & this economy has greatly affected everyone.. I’ve experienced the sugar daddy phase long before I became one.. It doesn’t always last.. Also it is nearly impossible to find a good escorting company.. There is a lot of false advertising.. I’m interested in makin’ that real money again, also would like to work in Vegas sometime.. If you have any connections regardin’ either.. Please e-mail me at: cherrYzbLo0d07@hotmail.com Thank you & Take care
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Hey ladies,
I’ve read the posts so far and it’s interesting to read the various opinions from both sides. As a bi man, and an escort to men I can give a bit of advice about what it will like if you decide to become an escort. First off it can be a lot of fun to get paid for being beautiful, stay in expensive hotels, have men adoring you and telling you how hot you are. The money can be quite good too!
Second, unlike what Love Dr said there is a difference between being a whore and an escort. A whore, as she described, is living a life a hell that I wouldn’t wish on anyone especially a 17 year old. If she’s reading this I want her to know that I feel for her and am very sorry that men can be so cruel. However, as an escort you can decide what you will and won’t do, and if you’re independent like me you can keep all the money.
Third and finally, there are some downsides you should know about. The risks are great as with any job that pays so well. There is a high risk of disease, in your case pregnancy- condoms do break sometimes, and sometimes they get taken off when you’re not looking : ( It’s also a certainty that if you put your self out there you will be raped. There’s little the cops will do for you, and any family or friends may say you had it coming. If you are a happy person now, if you have food to eat and a place to live, and if you are smart enough to work for a living then do. Being an escort is not as bad as being a whore, but remember that you’re not getting paid to have sex you’re getting paid to be someones sex toy. In the heat of the moment no doesn’t mean no when you’re getting $500 to do it.
That being said, if you’ve had it bad all your life and you want fast money go for it! I enjoy it, but it’s not for the innocent and the fun is only half the story.
i would love to become an paid escort i am a male how can i do this? please email me i live in new york
infamousrob235@gmail.com
i have always been interested in becoming a escort…. i find that in my opinion there is nothing wrong with this type of job. it is the same a being a waitress or a waiter, these people pay for your company and your service. i live in new jersey but not far from new york and i am 21yrs old. if anyone has or knows anybody in this profession looking for cute girls please email me @ zenbringer314@aol.com
u should keep in mind the psychological affect that this will have on you in the future although u may be “loved” by many men there might be a point in your life that u only want to be loved by one.
i hang out with a girl who is a high paid escort shes a strong person and seems happy most of the time (shes a great friend n i’m glad we’ve met) but she said to me once the escort thing has become a black cross in her life. i’m not against or for anything just make sure u know fully what ur getting into
Hi there girls I’m an escort and just moved to Vegas if you want to know some tips email me.. I’ve experienced it for a while and I actually love it as of right now I’m working on my website as soon as is ready I’ll put the website here jennydd89@gmail.com
Hello! My name is Shawn. I’m 31yrs old, I live in New York and would like to know how I could get started on being a paid escort. Please, e-mail me with any tips and or advice you may have. Hplatinum2008@aol.com. I would greatly appreciate any help that you can provide me. Thanks!
I’m a teacher who is in danger of losing her job due to the budget cuts in my state. I’ve applied for teaching jobs everywhere and everyone has the same story (not hiring due to cuts in education spending). Anyway, I am interested in becoming a paid escort. I have a great personality and love to have sex as well as good conversation. I’ve always been told I’m sexy and believe I would enjoy keeping men company. PLease email me at mconti20@yahoo.com if you know of any Escort services or tips on how to become a paid escort..call-girl, etc.
I’m interested..email me to send info
Willing to start asap. Email @ mar_jheri @yahoo
hello lady i recently started working for this agentcy u should check it out im making realy good money now i can pay my bills and continue school …email for mor e detials willowdede @yahoo.com