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Reason Your Wife Doesn’t Like Sex!
20:57 by Cindy English · 11 Comments
Why doesn’t your wife like sex?
She does…if it’s good!
It always amazes me how men can come home from work, throw the car keys on the table, give the
wife a peck on the cheek, squeeze her “other” cheeks and wonder why she’s not ready for sex – right now!
What’s the problem?
Aww…the wife just doesn’t like [tag-tec]sex[/tag-tec] anymore! Right?
Wrong!
The problem is, stupid boy, supper is cooking, there is a load of laundry to fold and the kids are fighting over who has the longest tongue…or something equally stupid.
To be blunt…she’s just plain not in the mood!
But how can this be? I mean, you did the “[tag-ice]foreplay[/tag-ice]” stuff right? Yes, there are men who honestly believe that a peck and a squeeze is foreplay!
Smooth moves like these should have any woman quivering and eager with anticipation right?
As Carlos Mencia would say:
“Dee dee dee!”
Guys…you may not be bothered by the fact that the supper will burn or that the laundry will wrinkle if it isn’t tended to but what about the kids? Oh, right, you only need a minute to do what you have to do so, there’s plenty of time.
You are totally visual.
- See the babe in the bikini? Shwing!
- See the bodacious bouncing boobs on the sweating female jogger? Shwing! Shwing!
- See the woman lovingly molding her double scoop, french vanilla ice cream cone with the swirling motions of her wonderfully talented tongue? Shwing, shwing and double shhhhwing!!!
Ha ha! You are laughing but it’s true!
You can’t help it…it’s just the way you are! That whole other “entity” below your waist just takes over. Sometimes seeing the “old lady” bent over taking the pot roast out of the oven is really all it takes!
You want to know something?
We women envy you. Oh if it were only that simple! But, alas! It just doesn’t work that way.
While we do look and can appreciate a finely toned butt or a great set of abs, sex is an emotional experience for us. We must be in the mood or we get absolutely nothing out of it!
The only thing that we get from a 10 minute “wham, bam, thank you ma’am” session is more practice at “faking it” to spare your ego! You are satisfied and we are frustrated and left to clean up! It becomes another “chore” on our already long list of “to dos”.
Sorry – but that’s just the way it is!
You want to get us in the mood?
You bath the kids and put them to bed while we do the dishes and fold the laundry.
When you are done, fill that tub a second time. Add bubbles, some candles, soft music, a couple of glasses of wine…and you!
The results may surprise you! 
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I couldn’t have explained it any better. Your site has got a lot of spunk! =) I like it!
yeah this is all fina and dandy how ever wat happens wen there isnt no dinner going no laundry washing or anything and she just sits in her chair, with the remote and at the same time u still run that bath water light a candle or 2 and turn on some music and you still get no resaults for anything u try to do, u get frustrated and emotional sometimes even for getting no resaults wat then
This is a one sided article. It’s lacking complete information. Half the facts are missing.
Ha! Of course it’s one-sided! It’s written from the viewpoint of ONE of the parties involved, and the woman side at that.
Of COURSE it’s “just that simple” as helping around the house, or drawing a bath. Right.
And when the man does all the work around the house, and STILL gets nothing from the wife? There are times when the word “lazy” describes the woman in the relationship too.
What if the wife is no longer interested in sex because she’s cheating on you?
The easiest way to really resolve sexual issues in a relationship is to TALK about it FIRST. And I mean really talk and really LISTEN to what each other has to say. Sure, actions like this are nice things to do from time to time for each other, but when they pretty much guarantee NOTHING for a man, men tend to get rather pissed when that’s all they end up getting for all their “extra” effort; NOTHING.
Guys! Don’t forget that a woman needs not only the place for sex, but also the reason. Don’t relax, don’t stop admiring her, turn on your fantasy and you’ll definitely turn on your wife! If she considers that your bedroom life has become boring, don’t even hesitate to visit this page for spicing up your sex : http://www.edenfantasys.com/ Have fun!
i disagree with the article, some women might need all that, but but we arent all the same people are individuals! i am a woman and i can get in the mood in about 3 seconds and i enjoy quickies! (and i am hot too!) i can not be the only one…..this isnt a “man vs woman” thing, these are situations of couples who’s libidos are not in sync, i know a lot of women who are the ones who always initiate sex in their relationships, and i know a lot of women who have a higher libido than their man (and they are attractive women!). sometimes men are the ones who wont give it up!
the following applies in situations where there is no physiological reason for a libido drop:
if your lady seems less interested than she was before let me give you some real advice!
confidence and libido are closely linked. if you feel good about yourself, if your man makes you feel sexy and loved you just want to be NAKED! when you honestly compliment a woman frequently, on her body, mind, and personality you will eventually get …. results, but you have to mean what you say, if she sees your compliments as empty it will damage her confidence and backfire.
if she never had a higher sex drive then it probably wont change, but talk openly about your needs, and see what she is willing to try. just make sure you dont insult her!
do NOT say “you dont give me what i need!” or “give me more sex woman!”
DO say “i need you, i want to be close to you, your sexy body turns me on, i want to connect with you more often” – you get the idea…
remember libido drops when people get depressed, so look for other signs of depression when your partner’s libido changes because that is a common problem
also i read that men who cheat tend to have more sex with their partner, so no one gets suspicious, and they are just more sexually charged and excited, i bet this is true for a lot of women too.
Everyone here has made valid points where it concerns sex, be it man or woman. When a relationship begins to wane in love, if it is indeed love, then sex becomes a form of leverage, to either do it or not. The unwritten rule where it concerns women must be doted upon in order for the man to receive sex is simply bullshit. What happened to equality ladies,..seems some of you want your cake and eat it too!
I personally treat my partner in life as an equal, I am intimate with my partner in all ways, i.e., intellectually, emotionally, spiritually, our psyche, and of course, sexually. If two people can integrate themselves at all these levels of intimacy, then sex will never be a problem. You have to be able to communicate in these ways to make it work as a whole. The problem is, most people will not invest themselves that deeply to another, they are too individualistic, too selfish and self-centered. One or both will not take blame for why the relationship is not working, when in essence, they are both to blame.
This article is pure stupidity from a person who has never experienced the real issue involved, when caring men who do their best to help out and to make their wives feel loved STILL face either (a) zero bedplay time or (b) unenthusiastic efforts at best. Yes, of course, you idiots who expect your wives to treat you like the big kid in the house, what do you expect? Can she be both mommy and sex goddess to you? It doesn’t work that way, and that’s just obvious. On the other hand, despite my best efforts to please her in terms of both housework and wooing, she simply doesn’t seem to like sex anymore. What’s the solution for THAT problem, Ms. Know-It-All Cindy English? I didn’t think you knew. Just blame it on the man – it’s always his fault anyway. Moron.
Your wife is obviously bored with sex. Sounds to me like she needs a new man in her life. That would likely spark her interest.
Great article. I’ve actually written a book on this very subject called “How To Turn Your Wife Into A Swinger”. It’s at http://www.swingwithyourwife.com
Look, the reason some women don’t like sex anymore is because she focuses all of her attention on the kids. Some women are really like that,why? Who the hell knows?
There are some women who don’t like sex because YOU have gotten lazy in bed, you don’t eat her pussy out anymore like it’s friggin ice cream or like you can’t live without a damn good taste. You don’t fuck the bejesus outta of her and make her have multiple orgasms like you used to because,well, “We gotta hurry, honey, the basketball game is comin’ on and I really wanna watch the game.”
It ain’t that hard to figure out. The car needs to have an oil change, the grass needs cutting, little Johnny has to write 500 sentences for interrupting the class yet again and it goes on and on.
Look, dumbasses, it’s life, it’s marriage, it’s relationships and you’re not that important anymore. You’re not 10 yrs old. You don’t need to be fed, fucked and put to bed anymore, so get over yourselves and go outside and cut the fucking grass. Life is not always about sex all the time. Restrain yourselves and put that energy into something really important like helping out around the damn house for a change.
Ya’ll act like friggin kids, I swear! It’s like you come home and you think,”If I help with supper and the kids, then maybe I can get a pc of ass. I really need some relief with this load I’m carrying around in my balls. Do you think you think you can help me out here, honey? Please?” Do you see how it sounds. I know you fellas wouldn’t DARE say that to your wives or gfs becuz the bitches would so completely “Lorena Bobbit” your asses it wouldn’t be funny, but it’s what you ALL think at least once a day. Now don’t lie, it’s true, and we all know it, right? lol! Thought so!