The Scarlet Letter

January 16, 2010 by admin · 4 Comments 

I have a girlfriend that was married 5 times by the time she was 35.

The reason for all of this? She wanted to have fun, have variety, and have sex, but because of the way she was raised, she felt that our culture and society determined that she should marry to do and experience those things!

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How Men Feel When Their Wives Goes Astray

November 21, 2009 by bcalendar · 1 Comment 

If you search the Internet, read magazines or go to the movies you'll see dozens, if not hundreds, of stories about how a woman feels when her man has sex with another woman. Yet, you almost never hear similar stories from the male point of view. Men are supposed to be tough, so they often don't talk about how they feel when their partner opens herself up for another man.

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Is The Ashley Madison Agency Legitimate?

April 13, 2009 by Cindy English · 14 Comments 

Is the Ashley Madison dating site for married people legitimate?

Here's an email that I received recently from a reader who was curious as to whether or not the
Ashley Madison Agency is on the "up and up" or not…

Hi Cindy,
Interesting website you've established. I saw your article/review of the Ashley Madison site – I am one of those out-of-the-loop folks that had never heard of it. Checked it out more out of curiosity than anything. I tend to be a bit voyeuristic when it comes to infidelity. Like to window shop. My question to you relates to how surprised I was by the large number of public photos of 'attached' people. Given the high cost of one's spouse/co-worker/friend or others seeing it, I wouldn't have thought there would be many at all. Last thing I would do. It makes me wonder if the site is part scam. I've seen some sites with these beautiful women 'looking for it right now' which seems like a hook to get you to sign up. I did a basic profile on the site and received an email from a woman in NY (I'm in Atl) within 2 hours. To look at it I need to buy credits. Another enticement type tactic. What are your thoughts on the picture posting on A.M. and the legitimacy in general?
Thanks!

Good question!

Okay…so here is my take on the Ashley Madison dating site the caters specifically to married people looking for a little sex on the side…
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Holiday Blues

November 30, 2008 by Cindy English · 1 Comment 

The holidays can really suck slough water can't they?

This is for all of the lonely people out there currently suffering from the "Holiday Blues".

When I started "Our Cheating Ways" originally, I saw it as an opportunity to talk about a subject that affects millions of people – infidelity.

While I have done my best to tackle the topic objectively, there is so much more that I would like to say, perhaps, more on a personal level.

I do believe that cheating is a personal choice and that on occasion the reasons that led to it may be valid. However, I also believe that the cure for "what ails you" is very temporary while the pain caused can be quite permanent.

The affair always ends but the damage lasts a lifetime!
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A Cheating Story – Could This Be You?

June 3, 2007 by Cindy English · 6 Comments 

I was one of the walking wounded…the cheated.

My story is not "unique" by any stretch of the imagination.

In fact, it is almost a cliché!

Sadly, hundreds of good women will see themselves in my story. But, just because it is so familiar, doesn't make it any less painful for each woman who endures it.

Let me tell you what I have learned.

At 20, I married my long time friend and lover. He was a handsome 'bad boy' who was fun and had a terrific sense of humor. He was very spontaneous and he was great in bed! What else could any young girl possibly wish for?

We were young, "in love", and having the time of our lives. We hung out with our friends, we partied hard, went games, concerts and everything else that was 'important' in life.
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Top 10 Reasons Why Men Cheat

April 4, 2007 by Cindy English · 58 Comments 

The question is as old as the problem itself…

Why do men cheat?

Is monogamy really a myth?

Are guys predestined to cheat because it is human nature?

Scientists have long explained that men are biologically motivated to seek out multiple sex partners. This natural instinct ensures a healthy gene pool and the survival of our species.

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"5 Things You Shouldn't Do If He's Cheating on You"

February 13, 2007 by admin · Leave a Comment 

© Ruth Houston

This may be the most important report you’ll read about dealing with your husband’s affair.

There’s plenty of information available on what to do if your husband is cheating. But very little has been written about the things you shouldn’t do.

You just found out your husband is cheating on you. You’re still reeling from the shock and you're not quite sure what to do.

Before wrestling with that decision, let’s focus first on what you SHOULDN'T do.

Most women react blindly when they find out their husbands are having an affair. They let fear, anger, hurt, or a desire for revenge compel them to do things they later regret — things which make it difficult or impossible to implement any worthwhile infidelity advice they may later receive.

This report will keep you from making a mistake that could sabotage the course of action you eventually decide to take. Regardless of whether you decide to leave your husband or stay with him and try to work things out, doing the wrong thing at the outset can make a bad situation worse.

Let’s look at 5 key things you shouldn't do and discuss the reasons why…
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I'm Not Married, So It's Not Really Cheating…Is It?

January 15, 2007 by admin · 1 Comment 

Today, infidelity has become almost normal – expected even. Hell, it's practical, it's trendy, it's so very "modern"!