Does A Wife's Illness Justify Husband Cheating?

August 25, 2009 by cenglish · Leave a Comment 

A few days back, one of my readers asked an excellent question in the comments section of the article called:
Cheating Husbands – What Are The Signs?

I have done all you recommend. At 47 I looked 10 years younger. I ignored the extra 30 pounds he was dragging around and the fact that he is lousy in bed and uninterested in improving (believe me, Ive tried). I was in fabulous shape, worked, cooked beautiful dinners, gave him massages, and yes, I swallow. But I got sick. I can barely make it through a workday. I can't work out like I used to and have lost a lot of weight. He said he married a woman, not an illness (this has been going on for 2 years) and he's not interested in sex with me because he's not willing to do the "heavy lifting." I just discovered online that he joined a swinger's club here in town. He has a userid so I know he's registered. The thing is I don't want him to know that I can check his history and know his passwords or he'll just hide it. But if he's with a bunch of sluts and who knows, maybe guys too I don't want him touching me and giving me HIV or something. I already have lymphoma. How does an ugly cancer-ridden hag keep her husband interested? Other than the sex he's been pretty decent and taken care of me.

This woman has found herself in a sad situation through no fault of her own. Unfortunately, her predicament is not uncommon. "I married a woman not an illness" is a cold and callous remark but one that many women hear when they find that their husbands are unable or unwilling to cope with the situation.

I really felt that this lady deserved an honest and helpful answer so I asked my friend, "True" what her thoughts were on the subject. True has "real" insight into the minds of cheaters. She understands the trials, tribulations and guilt that people are faced with in their relationships. Why? Because she is among them. In her own words: Read more on Does A Wife's Illness Justify Husband Cheating?…

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30 Reasons Not To Leave Your Husband

August 16, 2009 by bcalendar · 5 Comments 

Over the past few weeks I've spent a lot of time here talking about why having an affair can be a fun, liberating and enormously erotic experience for any woman. It can recharge your batteries, make you feel feminine and remind you of just how desirable you are. Plus, it can be good clean fun!

But, we live in a monogamy centered culture – which is why people often ask me: “If you really feel the need to have an affair, why not just divorce your husband and simply be with the man you want to be with?”
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The Cheat Manual Review

November 11, 2007 by Cindy English · 9 Comments 

For all of you married men who just Googled "how to cheat on your wife", shame on you!

I know, I know, you aren't getting any at home, your wife is not sexy anymore, you want to try new things, the secretary is flirting with you, she's so hot, you're so horny…and the list goes on.

Whatever your reasons, the seed has been planted and you are now trying to decide whether to take the leap or not. Tough decision. Your first question should be "what have I got to lose?"

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The 50 Mile Rule

October 28, 2007 by Cindy English · Leave a Comment 

Anybody ever heard of the "50 Mile Rule" with regard to cheating?

I hadn't until I was introduced to it through the joys of online dating. A lot of the men online that I chatted with were looking to cheat.

I know…hard to believe!





Anyway, some of these guys said they had no problem cheating as long as they stuck to the "50 Mile Rule". Hmmm…obviously not "up to speed" on proper extramarital etiquette, I looked it up.

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Cheating Husbands – What Are The Signs?

February 3, 2007 by Cindy English · 15 Comments 

You are a woman. You are intuitive. You "sense" that something about your relationship with your husband or partner has changed. You may be right!

Many of the physical signs of a cheating spouse apply to both sexes. The renewed focus on fitness and appearance, the new clothes and the change in interests. Those things are pretty universal to both men and women.

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