A Marked Man!

August 28, 2009 by admin · 3 Comments 

Hey guys…how far would you go to get back in your wife's good graces if she caught you cheating?

I am pretty sure I could not have "forced" my husband to do this!


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Does A Wife's Illness Justify Husband Cheating?

August 25, 2009 by cenglish · Leave a Comment 

A few days back, one of my readers asked an excellent question in the comments section of the article called:
Cheating Husbands – What Are The Signs?

I have done all you recommend. At 47 I looked 10 years younger. I ignored the extra 30 pounds he was dragging around and the fact that he is lousy in bed and uninterested in improving (believe me, Ive tried). I was in fabulous shape, worked, cooked beautiful dinners, gave him massages, and yes, I swallow. But I got sick. I can barely make it through a workday. I can't work out like I used to and have lost a lot of weight. He said he married a woman, not an illness (this has been going on for 2 years) and he's not interested in sex with me because he's not willing to do the "heavy lifting." I just discovered online that he joined a swinger's club here in town. He has a userid so I know he's registered. The thing is I don't want him to know that I can check his history and know his passwords or he'll just hide it. But if he's with a bunch of sluts and who knows, maybe guys too I don't want him touching me and giving me HIV or something. I already have lymphoma. How does an ugly cancer-ridden hag keep her husband interested? Other than the sex he's been pretty decent and taken care of me.

This woman has found herself in a sad situation through no fault of her own. Unfortunately, her predicament is not uncommon. "I married a woman not an illness" is a cold and callous remark but one that many women hear when they find that their husbands are unable or unwilling to cope with the situation.

I really felt that this lady deserved an honest and helpful answer so I asked my friend, "True" what her thoughts were on the subject. True has "real" insight into the minds of cheaters. She understands the trials, tribulations and guilt that people are faced with in their relationships. Why? Because she is among them. In her own words: Read more on Does A Wife's Illness Justify Husband Cheating?…

Children Are The Real Victims Of Infidelity

October 6, 2007 by Cindy English · 3 Comments 

Multiple marriages seem to be very common today.

I know a woman, Julie, who recently went through her fifth divorce.

She is 31 years old!

Her longest marriage lasted two and a half years and her shortest was seven months. This would indicate to me that there are underlying "issues" that make it impossible for her to maintain a relationship but that is not what puzzles me most.

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A Cheating Story – Could This Be You?

June 3, 2007 by Cindy English · 6 Comments 

I was one of the walking wounded…the cheated.

My story is not "unique" by any stretch of the imagination.

In fact, it is almost a cliché!

Sadly, hundreds of good women will see themselves in my story. But, just because it is so familiar, doesn't make it any less painful for each woman who endures it.

Let me tell you what I have learned.

At 20, I married my long time friend and lover. He was a handsome 'bad boy' who was fun and had a terrific sense of humor. He was very spontaneous and he was great in bed! What else could any young girl possibly wish for?

We were young, "in love", and having the time of our lives. We hung out with our friends, we partied hard, went games, concerts and everything else that was 'important' in life.
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Are You Too Sexy?

May 14, 2007 by Cindy English · 3 Comments 

Okay guys, if you can even remotely relate to this, please do not ask:

"Why do women cheat?"










Enough said!




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Top 10 Reasons Why Men Cheat

April 4, 2007 by Cindy English · 47 Comments 

The question is as old as the problem itself…

Why do men cheat?

Is monogamy really a myth?

Are guys predestined to cheat because it is human nature?

Scientists have long explained that men are biologically motivated to seek out multiple sex partners. This natural instinct ensures a healthy gene pool and the survival of our species.

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"5 Things You Shouldn't Do If He's Cheating on You"

February 13, 2007 by admin · Leave a Comment 

© Ruth Houston

This may be the most important report you’ll read about dealing with your husband’s affair.

There’s plenty of information available on what to do if your husband is cheating. But very little has been written about the things you shouldn’t do.

You just found out your husband is cheating on you. You’re still reeling from the shock and you're not quite sure what to do.

Before wrestling with that decision, let’s focus first on what you SHOULDN'T do.

Most women react blindly when they find out their husbands are having an affair. They let fear, anger, hurt, or a desire for revenge compel them to do things they later regret — things which make it difficult or impossible to implement any worthwhile infidelity advice they may later receive.

This report will keep you from making a mistake that could sabotage the course of action you eventually decide to take. Regardless of whether you decide to leave your husband or stay with him and try to work things out, doing the wrong thing at the outset can make a bad situation worse.

Let’s look at 5 key things you shouldn't do and discuss the reasons why…
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Cheating Husbands – What Are The Signs?

February 3, 2007 by Cindy English · 14 Comments 

You are a woman. You are intuitive. You "sense" that something about your relationship with your husband or partner has changed. You may be right!

Many of the physical signs of a cheating spouse apply to both sexes. The renewed focus on fitness and appearance, the new clothes and the change in interests. Those things are pretty universal to both men and women.

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Are You Tempted To Cheat?

January 16, 2007 by Cindy English · 2 Comments 

How many of us if we were 100 percent honest would admit that at some point, we have wanted to cheat on a partner or spouse?

I know that I certainly have and let me say that I consider myself to be a 'good' person with sensible moral values. By sensible, I mean that I do try to 'do the right' thing in most situations.

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