The Scarlet Letter

January 16, 2010 by admin · 4 Comments 

I have a girlfriend that was married 5 times by the time she was 35.

The reason for all of this? She wanted to have fun, have variety, and have sex, but because of the way she was raised, she felt that our culture and society determined that she should marry to do and experience those things!

Read more on The Scarlet Letter…

Hi Again! Since you have been here before, you should subscribe to my RSS feed. That way if something new comes up, you will be notified right away without having to search for it! Thanks for stopping in again. See you next time!

Ashley Madison Agency Makes Tiger Woods An Offer

January 7, 2010 by cenglish · 1 Comment 

You know, I'll be the first to admit that Tiger may have gone "just a little" overboard with his extramarital affairs but, a spokesman for Ashley Madison Agency?

Be serious! The guy is horny – he's not suicidal for crissake!

Read more on Ashley Madison Agency Makes Tiger Woods An Offer…

Have An Affair Anywhere!

August 28, 2009 by cenglish · 4 Comments 

Well, now Ashley Madison is taking it to the streets!

Maybe…according to a report from ABC 4 News.

Supposedly, the Ashley Madison Agency, that wicked online dating site for married people, has plastered their now famous motto: "Life Is Short. Have An Affair" on a supersized tanker truck that will be winding it's way around America promoting infidelity.

Geeeaaawd! I hate purple! Read more on Have An Affair Anywhere!…

Danyl Johnson The X Factor Uk 2009 "With A Little Help From My Friends"

August 25, 2009 by Cindy English · Leave a Comment 

These photos in reference to "The X Factor" have little or nothing to do with cheating. BUT…every now and then something just amazes me and I have to post about it anyway.

Such is the case with Danyl Johnson, the final contestant of the day in the London's 2009 X Factor competition.
Read more on Danyl Johnson The X Factor Uk 2009 "With A Little Help From My Friends"…

Being In Heat – Why We Girls Need To Cheat!

July 19, 2009 by bcalendar · 12 Comments 

The other day, I was hanging out with one of my girlfriends and she told me she had something she had to get off her chest. She lives with her boyfriend and loves him, but there is this one guy at work that is hitting on her. The bottom line was, she felt guilty because while she wants to be a good girl, every so often she's tempted to tell her boyfriend she needs to work late just so she can jump this stud muffin's bones.

Part of her worried that this meant there were problems in her relationship.

“Don't worry,” I said. “It means nothing of the sort. It just means you’re normal, healthy woman. And, that you should probably have a little fun with him until you get him out of your system.”

Over coffee, I explained to her why I didn't think it said anything about her relationship. I offered to be her alibi and gave her advice on how to be naughty while her boyfriend still thinks she's nice.

Sound shocking? It really isn't. Read more on Being In Heat – Why We Girls Need To Cheat!…

Cheat Like A Girl Scout – Be Prepared!

July 10, 2009 by bcalendar · 12 Comments 

Great tips on how to be a good adulteress while letting your husband or boyfriend assume you are still a perfect angel!

Is The Ashley Madison Agency Legitimate?

April 13, 2009 by Cindy English · 10 Comments 

Is the Ashley Madison dating site for married people legitimate?

Here's an email that I received recently from a reader who was curious as to whether or not the
Ashley Madison Agency is on the "up and up" or not…

Hi Cindy,
Interesting website you've established. I saw your article/review of the Ashley Madison site – I am one of those out-of-the-loop folks that had never heard of it. Checked it out more out of curiosity than anything. I tend to be a bit voyeuristic when it comes to infidelity. Like to window shop. My question to you relates to how surprised I was by the large number of public photos of 'attached' people. Given the high cost of one's spouse/co-worker/friend or others seeing it, I wouldn't have thought there would be many at all. Last thing I would do. It makes me wonder if the site is part scam. I've seen some sites with these beautiful women 'looking for it right now' which seems like a hook to get you to sign up. I did a basic profile on the site and received an email from a woman in NY (I'm in Atl) within 2 hours. To look at it I need to buy credits. Another enticement type tactic. What are your thoughts on the picture posting on A.M. and the legitimacy in general?
Thanks!

Good question!

Okay…so here is my take on the Ashley Madison dating site the caters specifically to married people looking for a little sex on the side…
Read more on Is The Ashley Madison Agency Legitimate?…

Is Monogamy A Myth?

January 11, 2009 by Cindy English · Leave a Comment 

So…is monogamy really a myth?

We flirt.
We date.
We fall in love.
We marry.
We live happily-ever-after…or do we?

Not likely and the number one killer of our "fairy tale life"? Adultery.

With approximately 22 percent of all divorces being the result of adultery, Cinderella and Prince Charming need more than a Fairy Godmother to help them stay together!

It is difficult to get accurate statistics on infidelity because people are not always willing to disclose their indescretions. However, according to Peggy Vaughan, the author of "The Monogamy Myth", recent statistics suggest that 40% of women (and that number is increasing) and 60% of men at some point indulge in extramarital affairs. Since these people are not always married to each other, that indicates that approximately 80% of all marriages are touched by infidelity.

One thing is crystal clear. We cheat!
Read more on Is Monogamy A Myth?…

Money Won't Buy Love During A Recession

December 13, 2008 by Cindy English · Leave a Comment 

Times are tough! Mistresses and gigolos are feeling the effects of the recession too!
It seems that no one is unaffected by the recession. Mistresses and gigolos are being hit hard in this time of economic turmoil too you know.

Read more on Money Won't Buy Love During A Recession…

Dew On The Lily

October 25, 2008 by Cindy English · 2 Comments 

My ex-husband asked me this once when I came home from a little get together at a girlfriend’s house…

"So, is there any dew on the lily?"

Dew on the lily?

Are you kidding me? Nope!

In his own colorful way, he was asking me if I had cheated on him!

Why is it that when the passion fades and lust is once again something to fantasize about, a man’s first instinct is to point an accusing finger?

"You’re not hitting on me so you must be doing someone else – are you?"

There are only two good reasons for these immature accusations…
Read more on Dew On The Lily…

Butterscotch Meringue Pie

September 3, 2008 by Cindy English · 4 Comments 

I don't disapprove of the Swingers Lifestyle, as a matter of fact, although I have never actively participated, if I were completely honest, I find the idea of swinging to be very appealing.

I have long since given up the notion that monogamy is normal…as a matter of fact, I honestly believe that it is really, quite rare.

Let's face it…how many people do you know in your circle of friends and acquaintances that are monogamous? A few but, my guess is, not that many.
Read more on Butterscotch Meringue Pie…

Top Ten Reasons NOT To Become Swingers

August 8, 2007 by Cindy English · 1 Comment 

Okay, earlier I posted the Top 10 Reasons To Become A Swinger, so, it's only fair
to "return the serve" with the top 10 reasons NOT to become a swinger.

1. Because you believe in and wish to honor your vows and the traditions of marriage.

2. To avoid the risk of sexually transmitted diseases.

3. To spare your reputation should your recreational sex activities be discovered.

4. To avoid disappointment should you not be "selected" or things don't work out. It happens. See this post at All Experts!
Read more on Top Ten Reasons NOT To Become Swingers…

Top 10 Reasons To Become Swingers

August 5, 2007 by Cindy English · 2 Comments 

Couples who enjoy swinging and frequent swinger's clubs say that they love their partners but crave "recreational sex".

They claim that having sex with others is purely "for fun" and in no way diminishes the relationship they have with their spouse.

So where in such a relationship are the secrets that only two can share? Doesn't having "interchangeable" sex partners kind of take the personal intimacy and romance right out of the bedroom?

Read more on Top 10 Reasons To Become Swingers…

The Swingers Lifestyle – What's Holding You Back?

August 4, 2007 by Cindy English · 1 Comment 

I thought that I would do a "quick" article on swingers and the swinger lifestyle. Wrong! When I began to research the topic, I discovered that recreational sex is a HUGE topic and very popular!

AskDanandJennifer.com conducted a poll on their web site earlier this year and the results were quite amazing…
Read more on The Swingers Lifestyle – What's Holding You Back?…

Beware Of The Cyber Affair!

July 15, 2007 by Cindy English · Leave a Comment 

Never believe that a cyber affair is anything less than a serious threat to your relationship.

"I didn't mean for it to happen…it just did."

Have you ever heard that from a spouse or a partner who cheated on you? The chances are very good that they were telling the truth.

It is possible that…

Read more on Beware Of The Cyber Affair!…

Does Double Dipping Effect Your Kids?

June 19, 2007 by Cindy English · 1 Comment 

Elizabeth from The View blasts infidelity and the effect it is having on our kids.

I tend to agree with her.





Infidelity is effecting our children and our society. You have to be blind not to see it.
Look around!

Read more on Does Double Dipping Effect Your Kids?…

Next Page »