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One of the most common questions we get from guys who read Cheating Ways is: How can I get my wife or girlfriend to be faithful? The one we get most often from the ladies is: How can I be unfaithful and get away with it?
In other words, your paranoia that she may be giving other guys a tour of her garden may not be that far off base. But, have you ever wondered what makes her think about cheating? Of course there are many possible reasons – but the first thing to consider is: Do you know what she fantasizes about?
The movies make you think that what women really want is long walks on the beach, a dozen roses and lots of Hallmark cards. But, real women are much more complex than that and have fantasies that are just as naughty and dirty as your own. The problem is that most men have no clue what girls really fantasize about – and if you can’t cater to her fantasies, her mind is likely to wander to another person who can.
For that reason, we wanted to spend today talking about the most common fantasies women have when they let their fingers do the walking. Of course, not all women have all of these fantasies. You’ll have to experiment and explore to find out which ones match her own personal taste.
1. A New Younger Man
Dudes aren’t the only ones who get naughty fantasies about younger partners. Women do as well – as they remember the stamina, in-shape bodies and the sheer number of times young men are able to keep getting it up. More likely than not, there’s some guy at her office that the women are buzzing about and has piqued her interest. The good news is that you can allow her to get this out of her system without actually cheating on you. Talk to her and get her to open up about who she has a little crush on. Then, give her permission to close her eyes and think about him when you make love. Tell her it’s OK if she calls out his name. Let her body climax with you, while her mind melts for her imaginary lover.
2. Sex With Another Woman
No, this does not mean she’s a lesbian. It might not even mean she’s bisexual. It just means that society has given women more permission to have bisexual fantasies than it does for men. But, this doesn’t mean you should offer a MFF threesome. Many women will think you just want an excuse to cheat. But, you could have a role play night where you are more feminine in bed. Give yourself a really close shave. Then spray perfume on your body. Then, blindfold her and spend a long time going down on her. Let her call you by a female name that night. Give her the smells and sensations similar to what she might get with a woman.
3. Rape Fantasies
Let me be clear from the start: THIS DOES NOT MEAN YOUR PARTNER ACTUALLY WANTS TO BE RAPED. Rape fantasies, sometimes called – ravaging fantasies, are extremely common among women. In fact, they are the basis for many of the romance novels we read when we are in our teens and just discovering our sexuality. But, real rape is about violence. Fantasy rape is about the loss of romantic control. It’s about the desire to truly surrender to a strong man who wants us so much he simply needs to take us. In the fantasy there is no pain, no risk of STDs and no chance of getting hurt or killed. Reality is different. That said, if she does have a rape fantasy, you can help her live it out safely and sanely. Of course, you first need to have a long talk with her about the parameters of her fantasy long before you act it out. Then, you have to come up with a safe word. A huge part of her fantasy may be screaming “no” to you while you bang her senseless. Therefore, the word “no” will become meaningless. So, set up a word other than “no” that she can use to tell you to stop if the experience goes too far or isn’t as much fun in real life as she thought it would be.
4. Being Totally Sexually Submissive
n a long-term relationship, very often we can end up in a pattern of making love – where the sex is all about our feelings for each other. After all, this is what Hollywood tells guys they are supposed to act like, so they are trained to be a gentleman. But, honestly, many women don’t want you to ALWAYS be a gentleman in the bedroom. Instead they fantasize about you spanking them during doggy style while you say filthy or aggressive things. They think about being ordered to their knees to pleasure you. They want to once in a while obey a demanding brute in the bedroom – as long as they know he’ll go back to being a loving partner once she’s surrendered to him in bed.
5. Being Totally Sexually Dominant
This is the flip side of the submissive coin. Even when couples are making love, there is often a much higher degree of control for the man during the encounter. He penetrates her when he thinks she’s ready. The sex ends after he orgasms. He does the things he thinks she wants. Many women would love the chance to turn the tables and be completely in charge of sex. They want to tell you to get to your knees and worship their pussies. They want to spank you. They want to tell you when (and if) penetration will occur during that encounter. They want to call the shots and have their stud obey in blissful submission. If you talk to your partner and find out she has these fantasies, why not offer to act them out for a weekend? All you little boys may find the sexual rewards are definitely worth any harm to your fragile male ego, when you finally learn to do you are told.
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Interesting and straightforward. You tell it like it is, mate. I know something as I’ve been married for over 10 years and have found so much that surprised me in both my wife and myself in this time! The most depressing bit is that of her wanting a younger man – you can’t do ANYTHING about it!
For me the question would be: what do you do when she does cheat on you or starts a new relationship?
By the way, a friend of mine has just found out that his wife has a love affair … and decided to write about it AS IT HAPPENS (!) on his blog! Check it out:
http://meshehim.blogspot.com/