My ex-husband asked me this once when I came home from a little get together at a girlfriend’s house…
"So, is there any dew on the lily?"
Dew on the lily?
Are you kidding me? Nope!
In his own colorful way, he was asking me if I had cheated on him!
Why is it that when the passion fades and lust is once again something to fantasize about, a man’s first instinct is to point an accusing finger?
"You’re not hitting on me so you must be doing someone else - are you?"
There are only two good reasons for these immature accusations…
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Why is there such a lack of commitment in relationships today? Think about it. Cheating is nothing new…we've been doing it since the beginning of time. Perhaps, just not with such brazen abandonment! We cheated but, we were "committed" cheaters. We stuck it out. We made our beds and we lay in them.
Back in the "old days" cheaters seldom left their spouses. Wives often "stood by their men" while those same men continued to support their families in spite of their wandering ways.
Why?
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Why Do We Cheat? by Cindy English.
Recently, an OCW reader made the following request…
My husband is 46 and leaving me for a 29 year old woman that he has been seeing off and on for a year. I would love to read some articles concerning men who leave their wives for younger women. He says age has nothing to do with it.
Since the topic affects many women, here are my thoughts on the subject…
Many men leave their wives for younger women and I do believe that age has something to do with it, but not necessarily because of the physical aspects.
While the popular phrase, "men like eye candy" is true, I think men have a serious need to be admired, looked up to and respected, particularly by their spouse or partner.
Beauty will not sustain a relationship but the emotional aspects will.
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The Ashley Madison Agency has taken a bold and brilliant approach to it's advertising.
Wow! That just kind of says it all doesn't it?
It seems that this billboard is causing quite a stir among the locals in West Hollywood where some people feel that this blatant promotion of infidelity is just going "too far".
Too far? In Southern California? Are you kidding me?
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Why Do We Cheat? by Cindy English.
Well, this time it's Dr. Christopher Asandra from the Chicago area who has his stethoscope in a knot over the Don't Date Him Girl web site.
Angry over the lies regarding his use of steroids and Valtrex (snicker)…I'm sorry, but it is hard not to get a little bit of a chuckle out of these stories…
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Every day, men visit this site with the same problem. "My wife will not have sex with me. Why?"
This is going to be the most brutal yet honest answer that you are ever going to get.
To put it bluntly, you are just not "hitting the mark" and she is getting absolutely nothing out of it!
But she liked it to begin with right? Right. Here's why…
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Why Do We Cheat? by Cindy English.
