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Back Door: The Cheating Girl's Guide To Anal Sex

One of the many, many reasons to have an affair is that it allows you to experiment with new sexual techniques you've never tried before. As well all know, every man is different and we can always learn from sexperience. Plus, many of us want to seem demure and romantic to our husbands – after all, we may feel weird showing our dirty side to the father of our children. But a lover is disposable, so it's much easier for us to let our naughty side fly free with him!

One of the many sexual acts that a lot of girls are curious about – but don't quite feel like mentioning to their husbands – is anal sex. As Carrie Bradshaw said, it's “The new blow job!”

There are many advantages to going the back door route with a lover. It minimizes the chances of accidentally getting pregnant by him, and will leave your vagina still feeling and smelling fresh if your husband wants to be intimate after you've had an afternoon tryst with your lover.

Even more importantly, many women report having a much “deeper” orgasm during anal sex than they've ever had during vaginal penetration. Plus, men love it – and it can make you feel slutty in a GOOD way!

But, many of us are put off because we are worried that it will hurt, or we simply don't know how to do it. This leads many of us to keep our “last cherry” intact, even if we are panting to be filled to the rim!

Cheating Ways to the rescue. Anal sex doesn't have to hurt – and if done right, can make you reach the heights of ecstasy. Just remember to follow our basic rules before you make him your back door man.

•    You can't use enough lube. Use as much lube as you think you need, and then double it. Keep the lube by the bed in easy reach, because you might need to use more as things progress.
•    He has to wear a condom. No ifs, ands or “butts” about it. Not only is it safer, but also the lube on the condom will help it go in even more easily.
•    You need to let him open you up with his fingers before he enters you with his manhood. Have him start with just one well lubed finger and then add more when you get comfortable. You shouldn't even think of letting him stick his cock into you until he's gotten three fingers inside.
•    Before your first anal experience, try to practice at home with a slim dildo. It will get you used to anal sensations and help you relax when the big event arrives.
•    When he starts to enter you, push out with your inner muscles as though you were taking a poo. I know this sounds weird, but trust me; it will help open your rosebud up to your lover.
•    Have him go down on you before you try anal play. If you've already had an orgasm, your body will be more naturally relaxed and it will be easier for you to take him in.
•    Make him enter you slowly. After he gets the tip in, make him stop for a little while until you are used to the sensations. Then, have him push in a little more and repeat the process until his balls are resting on your cute little tush!
•    Once he's all the way in, have him reach underneath you and play with your clit. This will build up your sexual excitement and bring you closer to orgasm.
•    The first time you do it, have him pull out after you have your orgasm. You may be overwhelmed by the sensations and it's a good idea to take a break. You can always finish him off later orally, and save his anal sex orgasm for when you are more sexperienced.
•    Most importantly, relax. If you tense up it will be harder to enjoy the experience. Just remember that many, if not most, women end up loving anal sex once they get used to it. So, just take a deep breath and enjoy the moment!


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