Decision Time, Staying Together, Why Do We Cheat?

Your Cheating Wife Does NOT Mean Inevitable Divorce!

Finally, someone who gets it!

I found this terrific article written by Larry Bilotta entitled: Does a Cheating Wife Inevitably Lead to Divorce?.

This article thrilled me to no end because finally, I found someone who thinks as I do about the whole infidelity issue.

Stop pointing a finger and laying the blame and try to figure out the true cause of your wife's affair in the first place.

She's not cheating for no reason!

Larry Bilotta says in his article, and I quote:

…instead of immediately making accusations and placing blame, did you ever stop and ask yourself "where did I go wrong?"

If you haven't…don’t worry, most men NEVER DO. What I want you to do for a moment is shift your thoughts away from all the information out there telling you to focus on "EXPOSING your cheating wife"…and shift your thinking to the following statement…

"Women DON’T LEAVE great guys."

It’s true. Why on Earth would your wife fall into the arms of another man when she has a caring, compassionate and sensitive man at home?

So again…I want you to ask yourself…"Where did I go wrong?"

Let's hear it for Mr. Bilotta! Finally, someone "gets it".
It does "takes two to tango"!

The only reason you’re faced with a cheating wife right now is because your wife has a set of needs that you were not able to fulfill. But that’s okay because SHE did not communicate them to you in the first place, so you had no way of knowing what you were doing wrong!

Does this mean inevitable divorce for you? No!

I truly believe that infidelity is not an unforgiveable sin. However, we, as humans, handle it very badly. There seems to be almost an "unwritten" law that states that a cheater is "the scum of the earth" and you must divorce them or "lose face".

Don't fall into that trap. Don't let society pressure you into a divorce you do not want. Don't listen to the "villian/victim" crap. Accept responsibility for the part that you have played in your wife's infidelity and fix it!

Like Larry Bilotta says: "Women DON’T LEAVE great guys."

Read his article!


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