Does Your Husband Still Think You Are Sexy?
Or does he even look anymore?
We women are far more self-conscious about our bodies than men are. We are painfully aware that our "value" is often superficially measured by our appearance.
When we are in our twenties, smooth skin, perky boobs and firm butts come naturally and we use those assets to our advantage to attract a suitable partner.
But, as the years roll by and "life" happens, things change. Our bodies change.
It's easy to let yourself go when you are caught up with raising a family. Kids, work, stress - they all take their toll on a woman's ability to "rejuvenate". Finding the "personal time" to exercise, have a facial or just pamper yourself becomes difficult so, you put it off "until tomorrow".
Before you know it, you don't like what you see in the mirror and - neither does your husband!
Remember…"My wife just isn't physically appealing anymore" is number 3 on the list of the Top 10 Reasons Why Men Cheat!
When we let ourselves go, it's not just our appearance that suffers, our relationship with our partner does too. We become insecure and more self-conscious, hiding our bodies.. We don't feel sexy anymore and our sex life suffers for it. Big mistake!
It is very important, not only for your relationship but for your own self esteem to keep yourself in shape. When you feel good about yourself, it shows. Being "sexy" is a state of mind. When you "feel it" so will your partner and chances are, he will stick around to grow old gracefully with you!
You cannot stop aging, but you sure can slow it down. There are many beautiful "older" women in the world today to prove that we are advancing in "anti-aging" techniques. Diane Keaton, Susan Sarandon, Meryl Streep, Lauren Hutton - hell, Lauren Hutton even posed nude for a major magazine at 62! Wow!
These women should be an inspiration to all of us. Looking great through the years can be done! And the best thing about these ladies? They have aged naturally without the use of Botox, liposuction or plastic surgery! Bravo!
So, come on girls, put the kids to bed and set aside some time "just for you". It's never too late unless you never start! Make your husband sit up and take notice, because if he doesn't…
Someone else will!
Need a little help?
Simply AntiAging
is a fabulous site full of useful information to get you back on track and looking your best!
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Me said:
My hubby still finds me sexy but it hasn't stopped me looking elsewhere
admin said:
Hi Me,
I read your entries in your new blog. Be very careful, you are heading down a dangerous path! Please "look before you leap!" You are not "in love" no matter how exciting and wonderful it feels right now. If what you have with your husband is of value to you, know that you WILL regret your decision and miss your husband once he's gone. Good luck!